while fighting with the man women tend to do this one particular thing in which some may not notice but i do
2006-09-23 19:43:58 · 19 answers · asked by boriqua2nd2none 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cry? emotional blackmail? throw things? what!!! I give up
2006-09-23 19:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She probably didn't notice the warning signs at the beginning of her relationship. Abusive men don't necessarily walk around with brass knuckles on and snarl at passers-by; they may seem as charming, at first, as any other man. But the warning signs start to show-- is he calling every day because he loves her, or because he's checking up on her? It's sometimes hard for a woman to face the fact that a man she is interested in is controlling. That's how she got IN. But how to get out? You could call a nearby battered women's shelter and ask for resources, or call the police. I'm not sure how much sway you'll have in a personal relationship. The problem is that right now, she's so fearful of him that it will be very difficult for her to turn him in; if the cops bust down the door, she may well say that everything is OK. The best bet is to convince her to just up and leave for a battered women's shelter. She'll be protected and they will help her from there.
2016-03-18 00:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mistake most women make in a relationship or a fight with her man? Not sure which you're really asking, so I guess I'll answer both. In the relationship, I think women's biggest mistake is to just blind themselves to eveything a guy does, or to come up with too many excuses for his behavior. In a fight between the two, I think our biggest mistake is a tie between not letting an issue drop until tempers are calmer and just not blowing it up more than what it really is, and the other is to just yell, whine, and basically throw adult temper tantrums.
2006-09-23 19:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The greatest mistake women make in a relationship is to try and change their mate. A person has to change on their own. I have heard of stories of how women love their significant other but when they get married "he'll change". HA! I don't think so. In my case before I got married, I set guidelines before I would even set a wedding date. An example would be: He smoked pot. I told him I would not tolerate any pot smoking in my house or even around me. Another one was: He had to get focused in his future and career plans. He did this and today he is a very successful businessman who doesn't smoke pot!! Yippee!
I didn't change him, he changed himself with my suggestions of cleaning up his act. I didn't really know if I wanted to marry him either. I loved him, but I had different goals, other than being married. But he sure showed me! I felt I had to follow through with my promise and marry him after he put such effort into his new ambitions. I followed my goals and ambitions during our marriage. But the more successful he got, the more arrogant he became. Backfire! I suppose I should have put manners in the game plan also.
And as far as the part of women tending to do one thing in particular seems very general. Women do quite a bit while arguing. Men do too. So I assume you are generalizing the women population and comparing them to one particular individual.
2006-09-23 20:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by lovetofly46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We to focus in on only our own feelings.
We give guilt trips, bring up past issues,dramatize the argument,
act like the Innocent/victim,point out almost every mistake he has ever made.
We make a lot of mistakes
2006-09-23 19:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by kandn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One big mistake that I see that myself and other women make in a relationship is believeing that love will change things. That marriage or commitment will make the guy love us more, touch us more, honor us more, need us more, be completely honest with us.
Assumptions and expectations kill.
2006-09-23 20:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in Serious comitted relationships women tend to LOOSE THEIR OWN IDENTITY......We must always stay who we are and be who we are not what anyone wants us to be or become. Men and women both appreciate and will respect someone who has a backbone. Some one independant and not needy is very attractive....this is what gives us the "wanting" "the desire" the thrill of the flirt and or chase......Its possible to maintain that provided that two will always commit to respect the other's person!!!!
2006-09-23 19:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't ever talk about your past big mistake
2006-09-23 20:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Gossip81 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We loose our self respect. We begin accepting anything just for the mans approval. It is an injustice we do to ourselves and blame our partner. We need to be smart. We deserve the best.
2006-09-23 22:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Kathleen L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth too often by bringing up all the bad things they ever did in one sentence
2006-09-23 19:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being too involved...learn to relax and dont take things too seriously to the extent of stressing urself out. take it easy and just....enjoy the love .
2006-09-23 19:53:18 · answer #11 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋