after 7 years I still love my daughters father... he still to this day will say I have his heart... we were young.. so much happend back then... if we still love eachother, we share a daughter together, whom her dream would be for us to be together.... Should I go for it? Should I make it known? We both have had our share of relationships and all in this time... but we still have the friendship where we can talk just like we always did... and the prob with us from the get go was always we have never been just friends... and i'm not saying just physically...and we haven't even been that for several years... Our emotional feelings for eachother has always been more... I'v for a while reffered to him as my forbidon love... but i wish we could make it work... we haven't tried since b4 she was ever born.... should I put it out there?
2006-09-23 18:50:29 · 5 answers · asked by SunRise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not married at all.
2006-09-23 18:57:36 · update #1
What have you got to loose? First, your daughter will have her biological father to have and hold. That's worth a great deal even though she'll never be legitimate if you two did not marry before she was born. At least, you can convince her when she grows up that you tried to make it right by marrying. Second, maybe the two of you are more mature to realize that love is not just sexual intercourse, but several other "love languages" that have to be taught overtime. So put it out there, but this time make sure you both use protection, and the best protection is a marriage license and marriage certificate. Your daughter will respect you both for making it right.
2006-09-23 19:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
has anything changed? has either person made life altering decisions that would make the formula work? i am fortunate in the fact that my best friend is my wife. we became best friends after not before marriage. many times the feeling of friendship and companionship are mixed up when the expectations of love is brought into the picture. fear of not being able to live up to those expectations, real or imagined, become a roadblock to taking the relationship to the next level.
2006-09-23 18:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u two still love each other, go for it. Hopefully, you've both learned from your mistakes that caused the split in the first place.
2006-09-23 19:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to tell us that one or both of you are married and and you are wanting to have an affair?
2006-09-23 18:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do put it out there,you need to know that he's exclusive to you or ,dont do it,if its love you want love will grow if its there to be had,why not take the chance you only have one life.
2006-09-23 18:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by myke4urnot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋