Ok, so this girl that i've known for like 2 years now is bi-i'm obviously les. Well, i don't know when but we lost contact, and now we work together-happyness. So we talk alot more-she's single-and so am I and latly all i can think about is her. We agree on alot, even on how to make realtionships work, and i really like her-i think she likes me too, but i don't know how to ask her out-or if i should, she says she likes being single-i don't want to take that from her. Someone help please...and i'm younger than her-by like a yearish
2006-09-23 18:49:18 · 12 answers · asked by Dark Angel 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ask her out...you're not taking her single status away from her...you're asking her out.
2006-09-23 18:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her out for a couple of drinks or to go clubbin or something. Pay her a couple of compliments and see what happens. I'm usually quite direct with girls i like. Just the other night when i was at a rave a girl i liked was their, Whilst i was hugging her i told her she looked f'ing hot and she kissed me. It was a fantastic night. Sometimes you just have to put yourself on the line. And if she isn't interested leave it at that and everything should still be fine.
2006-09-23 20:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well just ask her out for drinks,get each others #'s and don't push take it slow and fallow her leadand see were it go's and if it gos some were fine and if it dosen't just enjoy the friend ship because they are also hard to find like a good women but keep dating other people 2 untill she makes the first move and find out what she wants cause it might be just sex and b safe w/ it . good luck
2006-09-23 20:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by djonecat@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with talking to her come up with some questions you can ask her that would maybe let you know if she is interested in you like that. Or just come out and let her know how you feel and if she don't feel the same way. Let her know that is fine and you hope you can still be friends and you will respect her feelings.
2006-09-23 18:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by deadly_rose_04 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe start with just a "girls-night-out" type of thing, where you are with her - but not necessarily as a date. Then, depending on how well you know her, talk to her about maybe dating.
If you don't know her that well, this would be a good time to get to know her better.
Good luck.
2006-09-23 19:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by burnt_crispy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if i were u, i'd take it slow. go out for movies, dinner, enjoy each others company. talk a lot, laugh a lot, develop a very good friendship. but through it all, make her understand (and see) that you are a good person and you would like to pursue a meaningful relationshipn with her if (when) she is ready. i think it's a wonderful thing. u're off on a good start! good luck!
2006-09-23 18:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by Russ Bear 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't ask her out just yet. I think you should hang out more, but asking her out, like on a date, might push her away or make her feel rushed. When you guys hang out, there are more opportunities to laugh, talk, do things, get to know each other better. Who knows...she may ask you out. Good luck :)
2006-09-23 18:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Chrispy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say just ask her. It doesn't hurt to try and if she acts like she likes you, too, then go for it! I wish you the best of luck, and thank you for responding to my question earlier.
2006-09-23 19:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by LetosGurl85 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should talk with her. I know you are saying she like being single but you don't tru;y know if she really wants that and find out about her feelings are twards you. It might suprize you her answer. Good luck.......
2006-09-24 16:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She sounds great and I personally think that you should tell her how she you feel and see if she has feelings. If she doesnt feel romantic to you then at least you have a great friend
2006-09-23 18:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask her out! Go! Now! Asker her! Why are you still reading? Stop reading and go ask her out if you want her!
2006-09-24 04:04:15 · answer #11 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋