is it wrong not 2?y?
2006-09-23 18:34:19 · 18 answers · asked by sosesyof06 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
yes you probally should have stayed a virgin till you were married because once you have sex once then you are gonna wanna keep doing it and if you do then you are gonna en dup with a serious STD and that will not be good.
2006-09-23 18:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by mcwhiteboy6775 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Past tense? Seems the deed is done. Just try not to make it an addiction. Discard guilt. It only diminishes life, and surrenders power to blackmailers (amongst whom I include priests and others). A long life has taught me one regrets more what one didn't do than what one did. How else can one learn? George Bernard Shaw said that "when we learn something it always feels as though we've lost something". However, it's usually only ignorance or illusion that we lose, which may be discomforting but is the only road to wisdom - and nothing's a mistake if we survive and can live with the consequences. Anyway, who would want to marry and live with someone who has learned nothing about living. Only a fool, I reckon, or the kind of fellow who can't bear to think his lady might know more than he does; and fellers like that are best abandoned. So sail on, with care. Life's an adventure, and adventures are by nature not always easy. But they beat being bored with nothing ventured and nothing gained.
2006-09-24 02:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Some people slip and they need to overcome the mistake and work not to make it again. They also should share responsibility for the children even though they weren't married.
Marriage is a morally crucial contract between the spouses. They need to accept responsibility toward each other as part of a new family. A legal contract is important only for legal purposes.
2006-09-23 19:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stayed a virgin? You mean you are not a virgin? If you are not, then why worry? It is over and done with. Though there is nothing wrong (yeah, everyone has their sets of morals), it is better you protect yourself from problems. In that sense, it is better to wait till after marriage.
2006-09-23 18:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by worldneverchanges 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although sex is something sacred, there is no reason to hold out on yourself until marriage. People change in many ways after losing there virginity. You change, and so does your partner. There are many ways that you won't know a person until you've known them that way. The entire idea of keeping yourself until marriage was developed by insecure men who blamed their lack of endowment on losing a woman they cared for. (This can be common even today, even when other reasons were quite clear) btw This answer is coming from a very spiritual married man.
2006-09-23 18:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by Locke 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Waiting to have sex is a personal choice. Only YOU can say what is right or wrong for yourself. Once you have made the choice to give yourself to someone, you can never take it back.
If you are going to be sexually active, you MUST protect yourself against pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Talk to a doctor, nurse or healthcare professional. There are health care clinics you can go to if needed. They can also provide counselling if needed. Take care of yourself.
2006-09-23 18:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by angelfmlj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay a virgin untill marriage only if you are going to find a husband that is a virgin like you. It's just too risky for a virgin to marry a non-virgin in my opinion....
But it's really your choice after all. You live, you learn.
2006-09-23 18:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by charming_imogen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish I had waited, I just lost virginity this year (i'm 21). I'm a Christian and it is said that one should wait until married to lose her virginity. I only wish I waited, oh well. Make sure you are ready and not pressured to. Also, you must be old enough!!! I am 21. You may be much younger than me. Wait k? Take care.
2006-09-23 18:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by NO♥NAME 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily. As long as you are using sex as a means of expressing love to someone, I don't see how it could be immoral. It depends on whether or not you are mature enough to deal with what might happen afterwards, including the chance of becoming pregnant.
2006-09-23 18:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
It would be a beautiful thing if we all did, but the reality is, we're not all virgins. Just think, when you lay in bed with your husband, he could be thinking about you, or the one before you. I wonder if he will make the comparisons before, during or after sex?
Come on now...lets respect ourselves people.
2006-09-23 18:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋