I have a friend who is handicapped in the one of her legs. She is extremely intelligent and beautiful. But she really has low self confidence. By looking at her nobody would say she is born with a deformity. She says that any guy that she likes runs away after knowing of her handicap, what should she do? (She wears long shirts so nobody realises it?)
2006-09-23 18:33:20 · 19 answers · asked by transporter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Any man who would run away because of a slight physical deformity, is not worth her time. Also any one who would make a crude joke about such a thing is lower than, well you know. In reality, love comes in all shapes and sizes, and physical beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What is inside a persons heart, soul and mind makes up true beauty. You see different people in all walks of life with physical imperfections. If we live Long enough we will all have some kind of imperfection, but this is not the true beauty God blesses us with. I will tell you this, that even the most perfect man or woman, is not as beautiful or as sexy as a person who is imperfect, but has that self confidence, and self esteem that shines through. Please tell your friend, to be confident, she is a beautiful, sexy, intelligent desirous woman who will find her Prince Charming. Tell her to concentrate on her self, and the rest will follow. I will apologize to her for any moron who writes a snide remark, or who is too little a man to look into her eyes, get to know her and see her inner beauty as well as her outer beauty. It is their loss, not hers. Also remember that the most beautiful part of the human body, is her mind, and how she sees her self is how others perceive her.Good luck.
2006-09-23 18:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by stevensings20032001 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
By trying to hide her deformity, what she really could be hiding is her beautiful figure and her long pretty legs. Maybe she should just take a chance and get out there for one day, and she'll see how nice it is to be carefree and maybe that guys will notice her. Take her out to a club or somewhere, and she'll really enjoy it! I don't think guys run away from a girl because she's handicapped necessarily. I think a lot of guys like a confident girl no matter what her past or physical condition, or whatever. A guy may not want to spend so much time with someone who wants to hide herself though. So tell her to go for it, and have some fun, and maybe she'll discover the real her, so even if guys don't necessarily go for her right away, she'll have found something special to accept in herself.
2006-09-23 18:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sudha M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GC.... Guess you can say he/she has earned the respect of others and being treated every bit as a beautiful lady huh? The price some pay is higher then others to achieve the same recognition. Make her day and tell her how beautiful she is. The world has enough hatered, and so many people chose to continue to hate over love. People are deserving of love no matter their sexual orientation, except the preverted, and molesters of children. Good Luck!
2016-03-27 05:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The low self-confidence is the real problem, not the handicap.
I´ve seen plenty of hot/interesting women that have some sort of physical problem, an emotional problem is something that turns everybody off no matter what´s going on with their body....
2006-09-23 18:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by Tristansdad 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would never run away from a handicapped person, I would love the person a lot.
2006-09-23 18:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by singh_upender 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes my dear, the idiots do, the kind you wouldnt want your mate to waste her time on! If they knew how wonderful she is they would stay but alot of people are shallow and only look onthe outside. I am glad she has a nice friend like you.
2006-09-23 18:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by cheeky_kiwi2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When god closes one door he opens many!
She is beautiful and intelligent are example of my fist line!
Those who run away, do not want, what she has, they want what she does not have.
And according to me, what she does not have is not important compared to what she has!
It is good that they run away! But those who will come to her and stay will be what she is meant for!
2006-09-23 19:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldnt bother me and it is a gift. She gets to sift through all the shallow people. So actually they are doing her a favor.She doesn't need anyone who can't overcome her handicap and see her for who she is.
2006-09-23 18:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't need to do anything but be herself.If a guy runs away he was not worth her time or effort. Tell she will find someone.
2006-09-23 18:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by Jersey girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing she can do. If the guys are running away, then they are shallow and she don't need them. She will find someone who will love her for who she is, it just isn't time yet.
2006-09-23 18:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by cherry_kissez376 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋