i get jelous afterware but enjoy then when its going on , i've been with him 4 3 years
2006-09-23 18:21:29 · 18 answers · asked by myannambaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is coming from a woman who feels like you do. You need to set ground rules......i.e......she can't have intercourse with him or whatever it is that really makes the jealousy flare up. Then he HAS to abide by the ground rules, and so do you. When you meet with the other woman, tell her about the ground rules as well so that you're all on the same page. If she breaks ANY of the rules you two have set, quit immediately. Now, if you're hubby doesn't want to abide by the ground rules, then you have a problem. Hope this helps.
2006-09-23 18:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even in the most stable of relationships this is a bad idea sure it sounds great in theory but the truth is you never know how that will affect you till your there. I want you to take a deep breath and visualize your husband nailing another broad kissing her and touching her. Does that make you feel alright if you don't get a sick lump in your stomach and a little jealous then fine go ahead but I urge you to set boundaries from the start. When is it ok to sleep with other people who is ok to join you you might also think about a you finish with me rule for a number of reasons one of which is the terrible thought that a condom could break and you could be dealing with your husband knocking up some broad. There is a lot to think about Good luck whatever way you go.
2006-09-24 01:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not. if you have been doing it and it works. I've never had a 3 some with mine but would love to try
2006-09-24 02:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jersey girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the best ideal if you get jealous all the time. That's only going to cause conflicts in your relationship. If you can get over being jealous then its fine.
2006-09-24 01:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by deadly_rose_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you believe in the sanctity of marriage it is not ok and will in time ruin your marriage. I find this immoral and deplorable. It shows lack of respect between the 2 of you. How can you do that?
2006-09-24 01:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is of you all agree to it. IT sounds like to me that maybe you are not so into it. I myself could never do it. But, I know some of my friends that have or do and they simply enjoy it.
2006-09-24 06:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by BONNI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your words: jealous afterwards. The jealousy lasts longer because it is the stronger pull.
2006-09-24 01:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK with me if it's OK with you - jealously can be a killer so don't let it get in the way of a (hopefully) good thing!
2006-09-24 01:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by cat lady 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
self destructive behavior for all 3. jealousy is natural. it keeps things in check...or at least is supposed to.
2006-09-24 01:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by burntvalentine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You allready know the answer.
2006-09-24 02:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by jess g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋