I think it was probably because well after going at it for a long time we went back outside and i just decided to go to bed, I didn't kiss him goodnight and then later he had to sleep in my room and there was no room and I just said 'Where do you plan to sleep?' and he said he's sleep on the floor and i said 'Good luck' I later realized I had been bitchy, I really didn't mean to act like that, so I got out of bed and tried to wake him up but he wouldn't. Then he was all distant and weird as if he hadn't been feeling me up the night before...
2006-09-23 17:54:24 · 20 answers · asked by c_mitu89 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah the thing is he knew from the beginning that I wasn't going to sleep with him because his friend asked me in front of him if I was willing to have sex on that trip and I said 'no'.
2006-09-23 19:05:58 · update #1
Well it probably got him mad that you didn't try and find him a spot to sleep. Me being a girl, that gets me mad he slept on the floor. So that's probably why he is a little timid about the situation.
2006-09-23 17:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by xCrazY4hImx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probally thinks you are a tease but what he thinks isn't the important thing here your actions are you met a guy and made out with him in so little time be proud of your virginity and do not try and become a whore like so many girls these days forget him since you have already left a bad impression on that one and find a nice guy... Good Luck
2006-09-23 18:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you got to see the real nature of man. That cold, contempt attitude...it's always there. But it can be hidden in the interest of "score!". Once you dashed his hopes of getting lucky, he no longer felt the need to hide his true nature.
They made a movie about it. It's called "V". Men are like the aliens. We look human and friendly, but underneath, if you peel of the human layer of skin, we're scaly reptiles.
It's probably a good experience for you. You'll be less likely to slut yourself out in the future, cause you know the dude is just acting.
2006-09-23 17:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by ::ponders:: 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe you don't know this guy well enough. It was a good thing you had him sleep on the floor. Otherwise, bad things could've occured. Always pray for better results. LOSING virgin blessedness is a no-no. Don't believe that being a virgin is a big loss. It is actually a great advancement with your relation with God.
2006-09-23 17:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Kevs 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He acted wierd because he wanted to pop your cherry! He didn't get too so he was upset. Don't think you did anything b/c you did the right thing. If you would have let him go all the way, he would have been the same way. Hope I have helped.
2006-09-23 17:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by cherry_kissez376 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boys and men usually do this after finding out that a woman is easy.....Its like they want to feel up a woman and have sex but once they find out she is willing to do it so soon, afterwards they look down on her.
2006-09-23 17:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Rena 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Umm, well it's that you did so much so quick AND made him sleep on the floor. Just apologize and tell him that it's because you have integrity.
2006-09-23 17:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is sensitive and feels you have rejected him, maybe he thinks you don't like him anymore rather than just this one incident
Up to you, but no need to apologise or suck up to him, just tell him to harden up a bit and stop being so small about the situation, that should set his mind at ease
2006-09-23 18:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by angle_of_deat_69 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
prolly made him mad. I know I would be. You prolly also made him feel bad, this is his thinking "she was into me, but backed out last minute. She is either a tease, or a gold digger, and both are bad answers,"
2006-09-23 17:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lux 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it could be that he feels like you don't want him around you anymore after pushing away. Did you explain to him that you just weren't ready to go that far? It is important that he understands why he wasn't allowed to do what he wanted to do.
2006-09-23 17:56:59 · answer #10 · answered by ineedanswers 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋