My boyfriend is asking me during sex to let him in the back door if you know what I mean. Thought the first time he was joking but he asks all the time.I told him to find another man if he wants that. I am just curious does he have a fantasy with being with a man? Does that make him Bi? Thanks
2006-09-23 17:40:49 · 23 answers · asked by acomodropely 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Many straight men ask for this. No idea why.
The thing is that if you're not comfortable with this, DON'T give in. You'll only resent it or feel degraded for agreeing to something you hated.
2006-09-23 17:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Funchy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It does not necessarily make him bi nor does it make him gay nor does it mean he has fantasies about being with another man. Alot of men as well as a lot of woman like it in the "back door"(the man giving it/the woman receiving it) it's a much tighter sensation for the man and for the woman there are ALOT of nerve endings back there. You have NO idea just how pleasurable it can be. Don't knock it till you've tried it.
2006-09-23 17:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he is trying to know new pleasures. Maybe he should ask you first if you would like it too. In my experience, I think it's a weird pleasure, because the first time hurts a little bit but it's such a new sensation that can turn crazy some girls and boys. You must remember that if you wanna give it a try he has to be very carefully of what you are feeling and if you star feeling pain he must stop it. Always do it with lubricant and condom!!
2006-09-23 17:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Paulin Zen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of guys want to do that with a woman, and have no fantasy at all of being with a man.
Let me put it this way: there's a big difference between your "back door" and a guy's "back door". So your boyfriend is probably not bi.
2006-09-23 17:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by stevejensen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No he's not bi. Alot of men want this because it is much tighter than the other. It will feel better to them. I myself think it's gross. Why would a man want to get sh*t on his penis?
2006-09-23 17:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by angie1977c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't make him bi...it's a common fantasy. That 'area' is usually tighter, which makes it more pleasurable for 'him', but not for you (unless you're into that). Personally, I advise against it, considering the longterm effects on you. Just think 'exit only'.
2006-09-23 17:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by Janerator 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
heck i hope not!! my man likes it there. it's not all the time. its different. if he hasnt ever done it before i'd make sure it did some research on the proper way to do it. that stuff hurts if your man is an idiot.
2006-09-23 18:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by byrdie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that bad, some girls like it. Isnt it worth trying. If it makes you that uncomfortable, maybe not. That does not make him bi.
2006-09-24 06:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by jim w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't! i have no prove of this but i do believe that any man who ask to enter ur *** is FULL BLOWN gay. this is nasty and i agree with u......he should go find another man. Make sure that u use condoms when u have sex with him, cause we don't know if he is putting his hose in another man's tank.
2006-09-23 17:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by luhver 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, it definitely does not mean that. It just means he either likes or wants to try anal sex. Not something I'd want to try, but to each his own. Good luck!
2006-09-23 17:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋