ok so today i had a bad day and i thought about calling my ex girlfriend cuz she was the only person i felt comfortable laying all my problems out to, being vulnerable around but the thing is i havent spoken to her in about2 or 3 years. so would it be a good idea to call or would i seem like some stalker type ex who couldn't get over the break up
2006-09-23 17:34:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
call her, why not. tell her that she is the only person you're comfortable with.
i did that with my ex alot.
i had a new boyfriend who i was really in love with and he was all i ever wanted, but still sometimes i called my ex up and talked to him about my problems. until i broke up with that prince charming boyfriend and im going out with my ex now.
anywayz there's no problem with that. go ahead
2006-09-23 17:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mj 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I was your ex I would think I was being used - you call her out of the blue after 3 years because you have a bad day?
Personally, I don't believe it's the only reason. Maybe you've been thinking about her a lot and are looking for an excuse to call.
It would be much better to call and say you just wanted to say hi, rather than calling to vent because you had a bad day.
Either way I agree with the person above me, sleep on it and see how you feel tomorrow.
2006-09-24 01:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't talk in 2-3 years it would not be like stalking. However you do run the risk of her not wanting to talk to you or her being in a relaionship and her new partner being upset. Not saying don't call but these are the risks. Hopefully she will be OK with the call though so I say give it a try.
2006-09-24 01:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by Justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call. My best friend is a man I dated 15 yrs ago. About a yr after we broke up I realized he was someone I wanted in my life just not as a boyfriend. He just few 1,500 mile to spend a week with me. It was great but my b/f I have now doesn't like it. So long story short call her.
2006-09-24 01:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Tedi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well call and see what type of vibe u get.tell her just what u just wrote 2 us and make sure it's not a bad time for her because she might have some one by now.and if the vibe is wrong just say u wanted to talk make it clear that its some thing thats wrong w/ u and don't get mad if she dosen't want to talk.
2006-09-24 03:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by djonecat@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad idea, why should she care 3 years later? and why don't you have friends/lovers/family you can vent to? thats just ****. you dont care enough to keep in contact but she's supposed to waste her time with your bad day, why haven't you called on a good day? just to say thinking of you hope you're happy. write a letter to dear abby if you must but leave your ex alone.
2006-09-24 01:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that may cause for an interesting conversation. it's worth a try, she may not want to talk to u, but explain u need a friend
2006-09-24 02:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't call...sleep on it first...see how you feel tomorrow.
2006-09-24 01:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, call and see
2006-09-24 05:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋