ok me my mom my dad my bro his friend and one of my friends are going on vacation and i can only take one friend who are marissa and livi i asked marssa first but livi wants to got to and they are both my bffs! So who should i chose??? PLEASE HELP
i dont want to hurt both of there feelings!
2006-09-23 17:13:28 · 14 answers · asked by princesslily101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
One is gonna feel hurt if they both want to go.
But since youve already asked marissa....it's best you keep your word. Tell livi that you'll invite her next time. Bring her back a lovely gift or memento from you and marissa. ;)
2006-09-23 17:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it fair like.. for example pick marissa and and spend more time with livi and it will be equal or if they r not ok with it then dont pick anyone at least no ones feelings will be hurt i did that too becuz im the president of my school and i onli need 1 manager soo u get it and i hope it helps tell me how u did
good luck
2006-09-24 00:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to choose. Don't take neither. That way nobody feelings get hurt. It's only fair, choosing between the two is only going to cause confusion to a good friendship. Don't get caught in the middle. Let them know you spoke to soon, and you don't want to choose between your friends so this time you go with your family. And when the time is right you all can hang out... Good luck.. whatever you do, I hope it's YOUR best DECISION...
2006-09-24 00:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by The'Truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take neither. It's a lot better than hurting one of their fellings. Maybe you could take a friend that's not so close, but since they already know about the trip I really do suggest not taking them. But I'm sure they'd be ok with ou taking someone else to not hurt your friendship. Hope I helped!
2006-09-24 00:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, none of us can make that decision for you. Hold a conference with your friends before departure and exchange your thoughts. After an adequate allotted time, render a verdict that will be satiable for all parties. Remember, if they are your true friends, neither of them will be prompted to shun you for your decision.
(Sorry if this was a question for girls only, seeing that I'm the only guy here.)
2006-09-24 00:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might just have 2 not pick nebody or u can just pick da 1 datz etheir better or da 1 datz mo sensitive bout stuff like dat so if u dont pick dem den dey wont b so hert whoever u pick it should b ok cuz if dere real friendz theyll understand and not have hard feelingz
2006-09-24 00:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them both that you can only take one, in fairness you should take the one you asked first.
2006-09-24 00:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take neither one cause you will come back to no friends at all
but you can also throw a coin, and are you paying for this trip ?
2006-09-24 00:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by luuvabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take neither. then your not picking and choosing. Take no one. I'm your age---you sound 11--go on a family vacation with the FAMILY!
2006-09-24 01:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take both of them. the only way to be fair
2006-09-24 00:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋