i went to the tri state fair with my best friend and her fiance. he got drunk and started bitching abt her spending too much time with her freinds, she finally got him calmed down and we decided to leave, he's driving us home and he starts in again talking **** about me calling me a lot of really cruel things, i try to defend myself and my friend tells me to shut up, i yell and say no, he pulls over the car and makes me get out, its pitch black outside, and he makes me get out in the middle of no where, all my "friend" had to say was "i told you to shut up", then they drive away with my cell phone in his truck,
my question: should i talk to her or not
2006-09-23 16:58:52 · 24 answers · asked by Shorty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why would you? What kind of friend is that?
2006-09-23 17:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by mommaof4 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no excuse for what she did. She should have at least made sure that you got home safely. As far as her boyfriend goes, he is entitled to his opinions just like everyone else. If your friend did not agree with what he was saying about you, she would have defended you. Now do you really need anyone elses advice on this? If all of those hateful hurtful things weren't true...why did your friend fail to defend you? It's my opinion that she is not your friend at all.
2006-09-24 00:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by drkdreamr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not saying that your friend was right but what did you think was going to happen? You stated he was drunk and argumentative, so why would you argue with him? You could have chosen a much better way to handle it. The next day after he was sober maybe? As to your question on whether to talk with her or not, I think given your inexperience with how to handle people I would say do not talk to her.
2006-09-24 00:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need to ask? Are you into pain? Your friend not only did not care for your safety by leaving you on the side of the road, but she also showed you how little sense of loyalty and respect she has for you. As for the piece of **** BF, he sounds like trash and probably is with your friend because he can push her around like that.
2006-09-24 00:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by a_911girl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No way! I would never have any thing else to do with either of them except "hi" and "bye". You could have been picked up by a stranger and kidnapped or heavens knows what else could have happened to you. That would be my last time to ever ride with the two of them again.
2006-09-24 00:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend needs help. Her abusive BF will statistically: beat her, rape her, get her pregnant, or kill her. Drunk driving is sheer proof of his disregard for her life. Verbal abuse is how it usually starts and her not wanting to upset him is typical of battered women with low self-esteem. By the way, BF does not stand for BoyFriend, rather ButtF**k.
2006-09-24 04:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by Drgeeforce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO! She left you, out in the middle of nowhere! That is not a friend, sure that was her fiance but damn she could've at least defended you a little.
2006-09-24 01:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude what the hell are you thinking I'm sorry but no I mean come on I admit once or twice I was kinda stand off ish cuz of wrong bf's but to do that is screwed up she's not a real friend just get a new one.
2006-09-24 02:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by outlandishb13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! A real friend would have never chosen a jerk like that over her girlfriend!! You don't need the type of friend that would allow a jack*** like that to ditch you in the middle of nowhere! Stay away from both of them, they don't sound like people worthy of your company!
2006-09-24 00:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by melissa1983_99 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That does sound like a waste. Also, sounds like a bad friend. Don't talk to her. Now you know where you stand with her, chalk it to a good learning experience.
2006-09-24 00:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by Colleen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should have told him to stop and what kind of friend is she anyway first off he was drinking so wh was he driving? Your friend should leave him because the relationship miight get physically abussive
2006-09-24 00:01:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋