My boyfriend is always there for his ex fiance. They talk on the phone like once a week. She has just broken up with her boyfriend and is always calling my boyfriend. On top of all this she comes over to his house because she is still friends with his sister. I cant control that but it bugs me since his sister doesn't even want me over there so therfore I am not aloud to go to his house oh but his ex can. He doesn't stick up for us and tell his sister well you have whoever you want over so I am gonna have whoever I want over. He just avoids the situation which makes me that much angrer.
2006-09-23 16:58:22 · 13 answers · asked by lovemeslender65 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
for bootie calls
2006-09-23 17:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by moolie_wfo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not sure but I don't talk with my exes. When people break up, unless there's a kid in the equation, they should move on with their lives......better for both parties involved. In this situation it is odd because she's friends with the sister. If my girlfriend had her ex boyfriend over the house like that, I'd break up with her. Life's too short to waste time.
2006-09-23 17:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by brewbeer212 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW! boo you have problem and it's up to you how you wanna solve it. One they have a relationship level that you do not have with him and if she has that with him now while your with him you will never get there and baby that's is her plan. You need to ask him is it completely over because you feel like your not being respected. And also not trying to hurt your feelings or anything but he could be with you because she was with someone now that she not with anyone umm....... I'm gonna stop writing on that note. goodluck
2006-09-23 17:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Goose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to loose him apparently there are still feelings there. He is not respecting you at all and neither is his sister. Thats just DIRTY. You need ask yourself why you are putting up with that. As for him not sticking up for you.... He does not care for you i'm sorry nor is he man enough
2006-09-23 17:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by luuvabear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me tlike your boyfriend is just a boy. If he was a man, he would stick up for you and he wouldnt keep in contact with his ex like he is. He is playing games with her head as wellas yours. I suggest that you make him your ex before he hurts you worse tha he has.
2006-09-23 17:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOSE the boyfriend.....He does not respect you. If he did he would tell his sister that it's his home too. That he will have who he wants over.
2006-09-23 17:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get over it. His sister doesn't like you. You can't come.
-Miss J.
2006-09-23 17:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIS AS$ HE IS SO SMALL MINDED
IF HE TRULY LOVES YOU , TELL HIM HE NEEDS TO STOP TALKING TO HER IF HE REFUSES SAY GOOD BYE ..BUT IF HE HAS KIDS WITH THERE THEN THATS DIFFERENT ,, HE COULD BE PLAYING HOUSE WITH HER ON THE SIDE .. REMEMBER BABY .. TWO CAN PLAY THE GAME !
2006-09-23 17:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is disrespecting you... you are not allowed to go to his house??? look at this one honey like you would for a sister or a friend... that's a HUGE red flag!!!
2006-09-23 17:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by goddess1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's best to be civil rather than harbour grudges. which causes ulcers.
2006-09-23 17:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋