I am 20 years old and I was wondering if I could marry him she said yes and he purpossed to me should I say yes or no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-23 16:55:28 · 22 answers · asked by constance c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if
1. you have known him for long enough
2. you are familiar with his personality
3. have a lot of thoughts in common,and dont disagree with him alot,
4. u feel that he loves you and cares about you alot
5. u trust him
6. he trusts you
7. you think you can live with this person for the rest of your life and not think about other guys
8. you feel proud introducing him as your husband
9. he doesnt complain to a lot of things that you do
then sure.. go for it :)
2006-09-23 17:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mj 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your only 20 what is the rush? Can't you see there is a whole world to see. People to meet and place to go. Marrage is not going to solve anything, if you were lonely, depressed, insecure, unhappy. You will still be all of these after you get marriade. Stop and live life to its fullest before you tie the knott. Marrage doesn't solve anything it just compountds things, because not only do you have to make yourself happy you have to also please the other person at least 50 % of the time. Ya you think its easy, its not. And when kids come and inlaws what you there for a holiday and so do your parents. You have to decide. And if thats not the worse of it, it the way his family treats you after marrage. Its not easy and being a people pleaser will not make things better. Don't do it. If he's waited this long he can wait at least 4 or 5 more years.
2006-09-23 17:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If another woman has already said yes then he has probably proposed to her as well.. no you should not marry this man if these are the circumstances. You will only have problems in the future. Seems this guy is compulsive and doesnt mind one bit to play with the emotions of other people.
2006-09-23 16:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young. I waited until I was 27 to marry. And so many times I thought I had the right one.Well actually I had 2 very long relationships.Both of the guys I thought I would marry and so did everyone else in my family. I was wrong. WAIT,WAIT,WAIT.
2006-09-23 17:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by marisajeff2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, wait for 5 years more. You should have a stabil life not just think about marriage. 25 is good time for marriage not 20... too young... bcos u not mature yet. That why most of single mum is a young girl.
2006-09-23 16:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by lazuardi.sepi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too young won't work wait and save money for a better future. 25-28 is perfect age. with 50 percent divorce why do it so young?
2006-09-23 16:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by spook12spook12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably 30 or 40 years too young!
2006-09-23 17:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by cat lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go and have all your fun first, cause i got marry at age 16, and never got to have any fun at all, and my husbands a total jerk who won't let me have friends and go out to have fun. And because we have three kids, no babysitters, and so i have no life, untill all my kids go to school.
2006-09-23 18:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by Girlish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?????
I'm not sure what your question is. But do not get married before you are 25 and have an education.
2006-09-23 16:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by bella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whew are you somking drugs what are talking about marry both then you`ll be happy
2006-09-23 17:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋