Hi,
I am really popular and I have a problem. I have too many friends and not enough time to "deal" with them all. While I was writing this question I got about 6 different phonecalls and 25 IMs. I love all my friends to death but sometimes its too much.
I want to be able to have fun with all of them and I dont want to hurt their feelings. What should I do. Let me know!
Gota grab the phone!
Thanks Bye!
2006-09-23 16:48:50 · 6 answers · asked by Jason A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We do tons of group outings and whenever I'm "in public" I'm with like 5 to 15+ other people.
BTW: I live on popularity so I'd hate to loose it, I just need a break.
Also: I'm having one of those days where you feel like you just need a strong drink. Should I go with an Americano or Italian Screwdriver? LOL
2006-09-23 16:56:57 · update #1
Tell them to go die! You know you don't like all of them and the one you are just hanging out with for the "social +" can go to hell. I had to do this, and my true friends thanked me for it. Only true friends are woth your time!
BTW: Americano
2006-09-23 17:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by Alex A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mr. Popular,
Tricky one.
You must have some friends that you prefer talking to over others, surely. Everybody has a different character, so things can't be the same with every single one of your friends.
Focus on a good few, to build your friendship with. And work from there.
Truth is, you can't be everywhere, with everyone, all the time.
You're probably putting so much effort into all your friends, that not a single friendship is getting really strong. They are all at almost equal levels. Wouldn't you prefer a few very close friends, over 50 friends who don't know you the way a good friend should?
2006-09-23 23:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Medicated Harmony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slow down and be grateful for 1 true friend.
2006-09-24 00:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell all of them you need a little space.. group outings can take care of many of your friends all at once..
2006-09-23 23:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know id deal with it friendship is the best no matter what kind
2006-09-23 23:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I wish I had that problem.
2006-09-23 23:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by newyorkrose9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋