My sister had a good relationship with her boy friend for 7 yrs since she turned 21. The guy was so nice to my sister and never cheating on my sister even though she cheated on him once. They
also lived together for around 1yr at his house. she said several times while living with him, he was so nice to her.(After my parents realized they were living together, they made her live separately) Anyway they had a great relationship and the people around them thougt they would last for a marriage. however, 6 months ago, they broke up.... actually, my sister just said "bye" to him over phone and came to my family immediately from Texas to L.A.. She said that she and her boy friend had never problem.. just felt no chemistry between them, feeling like he was just a good friend. I've never seen her crying or looking sad since she came to my house. It really frustrated me who had a 2yr relatinoship with a girl 2yr ago and still feel heartbroken. Is it normal?
2006-09-23 16:28:51 · 3 answers · asked by smilecow28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some friends of mine told me that's the difference between guys and women. I don't generalize people with that but I usually see guys act heartbroken or not forget women weel more than women.
sometimes I feel sad thinking that if my ex-girlfriend might have act in the same way as my sister. It could sound selfish but I hope that my ex feels the same way I have felt.
2006-09-23 16:33:28 · update #1
I think feeling heartbroken is normal, and completely understandable for both parties; him & her.
Broken hearts never have a time limit, unfortunately. If they did, they'd all be set to a second, or a minute. As good as THAT would be, it's unrealistic.
People move on, and people let go, when they feel that they can cope with being on their own. Whether that's in a month, or a year, or 2, or 5. It depends on the individual.
Even as the owner, we can't always control our hearts. We can't control who we feel for. We don't exactly control anything. It feels what it wants to feel, and it heals when it wants to heal.
2006-09-23 16:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by Medicated Harmony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how true it is....but from what I've seen as well it seems that women are able to get over a guy really quickly and yes, us guys are depressed for a few years. I think it is probably a tribute to the fact that women are the nurturers and are able to not only nurture other people, but also themselves.
2006-09-23 16:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be itching for something new so get out and find it!!!
2006-09-23 16:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋