I was Hanging out at my friends apartment. He is 18.And I am 15 .. And he brings over a girl that is 15 that he met 1 day ago at a football game.. He likes her a little bit... And when i saw her i thought that she was pretty cute but i wasnt going to do anything with her...But it ends up that she doesnt like him but she likes me... she was laying on top of me and kissing me all over... 5 minutes later she asks if i want to take a shower with her... Of course I said yes... So we did that and now i dont know if I should keep stay with her or not.... (were not going out)
What should I do??
PLEASE HELP!!
2006-09-23 16:17:30 · 13 answers · asked by Sean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Bro...
You got to make a decision... How important is your friendship? Your answer lies within this question. I'm not going to say this or that... but if your friend likes her and you are really his friend... then do what's right.
2006-09-23 16:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what happened in the shower? No, you don't have to answer that. Obviously she's more than interested since it's not every girl who takes a shower with a guy she's just met. Why are you so uncertain? Do you think she came on a little too fast? Are you feeling guilty about the whole situation? Are you afraid to trust her now that you know how hot she is? I don't know what's in your mind, so it's hard to give you advice. If you like her, then stay with her. But I'd caution you to be careful. You don't want to be a dad at 15, and I'm kinda thinking your parents would have a fit if they knew about the shower thing. You might want to just play it cool for a while and see if she still keeps pursuing you, or if she just makes a habit of taking showers with every guy she meets. Quite frankly, if I were your 18-year-old friend, I'd hide the soap and towels and put a lock on the bathroom door whenever she comes to visit while you're there.
2006-09-23 16:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You need to decide if you are just like boys, or girls, or both.
If both that may cause a problem later in life, but can wait a while. Yes the girl for another shower, no make it a sauna.
Make her pay for it if you have too un less you can get one for free. Should the 18 year old invited no way . you must talk out this out with the other girl. Did the 18 yr old see any of you together.?
If not do the above. But talk with her!!!!!!!!! ASAP with or with out the Sauna.
2006-09-23 16:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Kangvbc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU have nothing to decide. adachic82 (above) is right. Your 18 year old friend can NOT date a 15 year old. It is not a matter of morals its a matter of LEGIALITY. It is ILLIGAL for your friend to date, let alone be sexually active with her. Personally (being 15) I belive 15 is tooooooo young to have sex and (no offense) but she sounds like a slut. Having known you only a lil time she is ready for a BIG step.
2006-09-23 16:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Goergia (George For Short) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're interested in her, then you should date her, but use protection if you're going to be sexually active. Your 18 year old friend has no business with a 15 year old girl and he could go to jail for statutory rape if they ever mess around, so he's best off by staying away from jail bait and dating someone at least his age.
2006-09-23 16:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all i do not condone that type of bahavior at 15.
i would think that you wouldnt be the first or last with her.
would you want a gf thats so easy?really think about this
2006-09-23 16:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by tajura001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u dont really care what ur friend has 2 say, if he likes her y would u do that, seems like ur a jerk 2 him, and a toy 2 her
2006-09-23 16:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Taisha B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS **********SICK
HOW COULD U DO THAT TO A FRIEND
YOU ARE TO YOUNG
YUR FRIEND LIKES HER
I WOULD NEVER DO THAT
Sorry That is how I feel
P.S.Guitar Gal's friend wrote this so BLEEP
2006-09-23 16:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by guitar gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you one thing i'm sure glad you arent my friend. Some friend you are!!!
2006-09-23 16:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sharon L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you havta decide if the girl or your friend is more important...and after you decide you mite havta break it to them...
2006-09-23 16:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by aly86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋