I cannot stop thinking about my best female friend. She and I usually hang with each other outside everyday. Like she go to the movies with me and go to dinners with me. I usually call her everyday and see if she wants to go out with me (no, i am not asking her to become my girlfriend), she usually goes out with me, and sometimes she asks me to go to the mall with her. Does that mean we are dating? I am really confused. I am madly in love with her. I did ask her and she wasn't dating anyone. Should I ask her to become my girlfriend?
2006-09-23 16:10:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Aw that is sooo incredibly romantic. I think you two belong together. What's better than having the person you love the most and your best friend combined in one? You should talk to her about how you feel first because ya never know it might ruin your friendship. Be careful about what you decide to do and think about the consequences. If you feel that your feelings are mutual you should deffinetley ask her.
2006-09-23 18:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my best friend!!! That's the best relationship to have! Start by telling her that you love her...just as a friend. Hug her the next time you see her...as a friend. Next time she's sad around you, kiss her on her forehead. Did you get that? FOREHEAD!!! It's a sign of endearment! Keep doing this stuff and before you know it, it'll be like you are together, and then more things will happen. You won't have to ask if she's your girlfriend, you'll just know.
2006-09-23 16:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by breaker_1020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a match to me!!
Tell you how much you enjoy being around her and spending time together and you don't want to mess up the great friendship by dating but you would love for her to be your girlfriend.
If she feels the same way you do then go for it!!
Good Luck!!
2006-09-23 16:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by geminisista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sure fired way to express yourself to her would be to catch her at a quiet time (a nice time) with a kiss. Her response will give you everything you need to know and how to proceed.
If you don't like that idea, then your only other alternative is to sit down and tell her flat out......I love you....I mean I really love you and would like so much more than friendship with you.
((Never ask...."Will you be my girlfriend?" ))
2006-09-23 16:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont really think she considers it like a date date, and i dont think u do ethier i mean she thinks it like u are u REALLY close friends haning out. but if u are shy and stuff then send her flowers or a letter exampling everything... but if u have a gut feeling she doesnt like u dont break it to her so fast i mean after that the friendship will be bumpy and weird.
2006-09-23 16:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by vs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're killing me... You need to read her body language and look for the signals if she is interested in taking it to the next level.
Try kissing her on the cheek and see how she reacts. Act cool and relaxed. Don't say you're in love with her, it will probably freak her out.
2006-09-23 16:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she thinks of you, tell her you want her to be your girlfriend.
2006-09-23 16:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by Gary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yee ha! go for it, bucko! it seems like you do a awful lot of things a couple would do...... ;-)
2006-09-23 16:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by ~Pom!~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋