i BARLEY TURNED 15 AND i FOUND OUT iM 2 MONTHS PREGNET. i HAVENT TOLD MY MOM YET i NO SHE WiLL FLiP?
WHATS SHOULD i DO??
2006-09-23 16:05:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I became pregnant when I was 13 and am now almost 26. Everything worked out, even though my parents were disappointed. The most important thing is to know what you want. Do you want to raise the baby? Would you want a family member to raise it? would you want to give it up for adoption? Or (if it suits you) have an abortion? Just remember, it is YOUR choice. If you want to have and raise your child, then don't let ANYONE try to change your mind. This is the time...You wanted to do grown up things, so now you have to make grown up decisions. And this should be your first one. Try to find a support before you tell your parents who actually say what you would like to do is a good idea. If you don't you may have a difficult time sticking to your guns and could regret the decision for the rest of your life. There aren't any regrets when it is your decision and only yours. Then tell your parents, and your wishes/ plans, and ask for understanding and advice. Let them know you love them and didn'tr do this to hurt, or embarrass them, and trust they will help you through this difficult time.
By the way... I have a lovely 11 year old daughter who I raised on my own, and also a 4 year old son. I worked and had my own place, finished school, and am now in college. It definately wasnt easy, and I wanted to give up so many times, but what got me through was having someone there to support me in the decisions i made.
Good luck!
2006-09-23 16:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by darkstar32822 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you what i did i am 16 i found out i was when i was 15 and when i found out i wrote her a letter and put it in the mail box and left when she went to get the mail she read the letter so when i got home i had gave her time to think about it and cool down so we had a long talk and i know have a 7 month old baby boy and my mom is there for me and is so proud of her grandson
2006-09-24 13:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by super mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should consider seeing a doctor immediatedly to confirm what you suspect/know.
Also talk to your mother about what you suspect/know. She, no doubt will be angry if you are actually pregnant, but she cannot be angry forever. Continued anger will not change the fact that you're pregnant.
I hope everything works out for you and the baby and remember in everything there is a lesson to be learned.
2006-09-23 23:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit your mother down and tell her that you are pregnant and go see an OB GYN. Your mother can help you in more ways than you know. It is best that you not keep being pregnant a secret from your mother. I would just go ahead and tell her and accept whatever consequences follow.
2006-09-23 23:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dayum shawty..what happen to condoms?..lol..u been watching MTV AIDS..cmon..
well i hope all goes well wit that..good luck..first gonna be rough..but later on only gets better by prayer:-)...
keep ya head up..dont worry..just let God take the rest..
dumb thing would be to get rid of it..but than again its up 2 u..
make the decision u think is best..ya mom will be mad..all parents would be mad..but what can ya do about it..
either there gonna be there to support ya..or not..
2006-09-23 23:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie i know this is really tough, but at your age you cant get an abortion without your parents cosent. i know your scared, but the best thing is to sit your mom down and tell her. She will eventually get over it because she loves you. Best Wishes!!
2006-09-23 23:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all.... WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING HAVING SEX AT 14??!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Yes, she will freak out but you need her support and life experience as you don't have any yet. Tell her and tell her NOW.
I wish you all the best.
2006-09-23 23:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by J M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST YOU NEED TO TELL THE DAD, THEN GO GET A CHECK UP, UR BABY'S HEALTH IS WAY MORE IMPORTANT THAN HOW YOUR MOM CAN REACT. WORRY ABOUT HER LATER U NEED TO GO TO THE DOCTOR. DON'T BE SO SCARED ABOUT IT YOUR ALREADY PREGNANT WAT CAN U DO, JUST TELL HER, SHE SHOULD BE UNDERSTANDING. BUT DON'T WAIT,,,IT'S ONLY GONNA MAKE YOU FEEL MISERABLR I FYOU DON'T SAY ANYTHING...
HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT... TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF..( & baby)
2006-09-23 23:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by DRLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her, She might surprise you, i know it is hard but if you dont tell her it will get worse 4 u.Why didn't you use protection? You silly girl.But dont worry just tell her and you will feel alot better.
2006-09-24 02:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by mum of 3 boys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor to be sure.
Then talk to the guidance counselor and talk to your minister (priest, rabbi, shaman, ...)
2006-09-23 23:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by FortyLoveTX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋