I'm a sophmore in high school and here is my problem.. . . .
One of my closest friends broke up with her bf *also a really close friend*on their 1 year anverisry by running off with another guy, who she is now dating, she broke up with him the next day over msn which is pretty low I know. Now she's starting to mess with her ex again by saying things like she's still loves him and that she doesn't know if she'll stay with the other guy, but I know she is messing with him because she is always cuddling with her new bf and she never really did that with her ex, and before she gave him a note saying that she still liked her ex, she showed me a note that her bf now gave her saying how much he loved her and her reply saying how much she loves him.. . . .
My question is this.. . .
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Additional info: her ex asked me out and we tried dating for like 2 days it didn't really work but he wants to try it again when he's over her more.. . .which right now looks really slim..
2006-09-23 15:58:54 · 8 answers · asked by R.R 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
that he'll actually get over her anytime soon cause she's messing with him, he's already had a lot to deal with without all this, and I'm starting to think I really really like him, is that wrong? she wants him to move on she keeps talking about it, and I think she is being a ***** to him and I'm not really sure how to handel her.. . .any ideas?
2006-09-23 16:00:35 · update #1
There is a saying about friends being "reasons, seasons, or lifetimes"... Figure out which each of these friends are and be true to yourself... As long as you are strong in who you are and follow your heart with honesty you can't go wrong... It's hard being stuck in the middle and it's even harder being stuck between two people you really care about... If they are truly good friends of yours then they will understand when you are honest with them...
As for dating this guy... Give it time... If it's meant to be then it's meant to be... Just don't rush into anything because you don't want to be the rebound girl as those are here today and gone tomorrow... And once again -- be honest and true to yourself...
2006-09-23 16:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your friend needs to grow up and quit playing around with her ex's feelings. Tell the ex how she really is and just comfort him and give him support. Tell him that you want to help him and be by his side. Try to get his mind off off your friend. Hope this helps or gives you more ideas. God Bless
2006-09-23 16:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by JD0305 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur friend and tell her that u dont think she should mess with her ex like that. and if she still has feelings for him should should break up with her current bf. if not then she should stop messing with her ex and let him move on. if she doesnt stop then tell him that u think shes leading him on. and give him time to get over her.
2006-09-23 16:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by jordanthegrouch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she's your friend, but if she keeps messing with her ex that you're going to have to tell him because she's not doing the right thing. i hope it works out.
2006-09-23 16:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by xopinkcarnationox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like she wants him back cause she doesnt want you dating him....i wouldnt date him....you be glad you didnt in later years.
2006-09-23 16:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAY TOO much drama for me...
2points
2006-09-23 16:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Firesoul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
doest everyone have problems of their own
2006-09-23 19:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should choose between him and her.
2006-09-23 16:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by jack sparrow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋