If your married and you found out your wife had been sending letters, cards and pictures of herself to another man how would you react? You also found out that she had been doing this for the last 12 years and yes she knows the other man is in a relationship. My boyfriend of 12 years kept receiving cards letters and pics from this woman. I warned her 9 years ago to stop or i would tell her husband. She begged me not to and promised she would stop. Lately I found cards letters and pictures of her in his (my boyfriend) drawer. I made copies of them and sent them to the bitches husband. I have not heard from him. She has threatened to kick my *** according to my boyfriend because I ruined her marriage. I didn't ruin anything she did, by not stopping sending the crap! So, guys, how would you react if you received evidence of your wife sending cards letters and pict to another man?
2006-09-23 15:54:59 · 6 answers · asked by SoSpecial 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dang this sounds a lot like the Young and Restless, lol.Some guys don't want know and they're just happy that their wife isn't constantly bugging them.Other guys would be angry and surprised.He's probably more mad at her than he is at you.The bigger question here is why YOUR boyfriend hasn't told this woman to back off. I know some guys can be stupid but it seems to me that he's just going along with what shes doing.Does he understand that you are not ok with his relationship with this woman?You can't just blame her because he's willingly participating by keeping her photos in his desk drawer and continuing to have some kind of relationship with her.It might be hard to accept but you need to think about the fact that if your boyfriend was doing HIS job then you wouldn't have to do it for him.Obviously this woman has no respect for you or she wouldn't be threatening to beat you up. She sounds like a loser. She's just mad because someone finally put a stop to her nonsense.Hmmmm. Maybe you should see how he much he'd like it if you started writing letters to some other guy that you met on the internet?
2006-09-23 16:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Yahooanswerssux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what the letters say,, if its just am thinking of you it really no big deal,, guys can have female friends without the sex you know
2006-09-23 15:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would react as her husband has, and I think you did the right thing.
2006-09-23 15:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did right. you even gave the ho a warning! i would have done worse. the problem is your guy is lame.
2006-09-23 16:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce the ho.
2006-09-23 15:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not good.
2006-09-23 15:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋