i what to ask a guy out. What is the best way to ask
2006-09-23 15:21:18 · 17 answers · asked by zebra girl 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Ask "If I offer to take you out for a burger, would you consider it a date?" If he says yes-tell him when you'd like to go. If he asks you if YOU think it would be a date, tell him you're leaving that all up to him, and smile.
2006-09-23 15:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by For sure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is the best way to ask without looking desperate.
Ok, first, you have to develop a little bit of a relationship with him if you haven't already. If you walk by him in the hall everyday, say hi. That way it won't look abnormal if you talk to him.
Then, strike up a casual conversation. Talk about TV, Music, the weather, anything. Maybe stop and be like, "Do you watch Grey's Anatomy" and keep it going. Move the conversation to hangouts and stuff. Then, if y ou mention a place you like and be like, "Maybe we should go there one night. How about this Thursday".
If he says yes, do your victory dance and go! If he says no, just say i thought it would be fun, and either keep talking casually or walk away. This way you look like you just wanted to go as friends and don't seem desperate.
Of course if you're already good friends you can just ask and avoid all this.
2006-09-23 15:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by Curious_J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well walk around him so that he notices u. then complement him. Make small talk and act like u are flirting. flip ur hair ones and flash him a smile. tell him that he looks like Johnny depp and u totally love Johnny depp. after that went u are done talking tell him that if he is not busy if u could go to see a movie. (when u start to talk ask him his fav movie in the movies and then say u want to see that too.) well when u are in the movies start to yawn alittle. then lay on his shoulder. make urself confie and then look at him. When u look at him focus so if he sees u he knows u like him. well when the move is over ask him to walk u home and then say when u are there at ur house u had a great time. then move closer to him. look at ur feet and giggle alittle then look up with a smile at him then go for a kiss but dont close ur eyes. just move closer. don't pucker up ok just go slow and if u follow what i said then u will get a kiss and a boyfriend. look i know its alot but that's why i have a boyfriend so plzz take the advise.
2006-09-23 15:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Baby J Luca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thought the guy was supposed to ask the girl out, but if you're truly a Sadie Hawkins, just ask him if he wants to join you for dinner.
2006-09-23 15:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to notice you and ask you out. Find out what he enjoys doing get good at it and then beat him at it and that always makes a guy notice. If it's pool, cards ,bowling, shooting hoops or get interested in his hobby...it always works for me. Guys love a challenge.
2006-09-23 15:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Dale Jr Fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and be like "wanna check out that new band friday?" or something. be confident. maybe you should start out on a double date first.DONT sned the messenger around. guys hate it. u wont score him that way. its really lame.
2006-09-23 15:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by heyitspreeti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him to ask u out
2006-09-23 15:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by scluby2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say to him,what are your plans for this weekend,and from there if he is a real man he will ask you out from there
2006-09-23 15:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it.
Kinda casual - Like, hey, do you wanna go see a movie sometime?
He'll likely be surprised, but will also probably say yes.
2006-09-23 15:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by Melis__A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead and do it. You'll never know if he's going to shoot you down and make fun of you if he doesn't like you.
2006-09-23 15:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by roshambo76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋