Alrighty, I have been going out with this guy for a little more than 6 months. Let's call him Bob. Well, I love Bob A LOT! But sometimes I feel as if he is loosing intrest in me. For example, he works ALL THE TIME!! And anyday he has off what does he do but go work with his dad, or go to a family members house, or chill with his friends. We don't have any time to spend together. I brought up this issue to him and he acted as if it wasnt a big deal. I feel as if we are drifting apart. Like, we dont talk anymore, like we used to. Anytime I call him he is usually sleeping, cuz he worked a long shift, or I am busy doing homework and dont bother calling him until late. When I brought up this issue to him he stayed quiet. I wouldve done it in person but when is the time!? During school we don't have any classes together, and after school he goes straight to work. We dont spend a lot of time 2gether basically, i feel as if we are drifting apart. I am here trying to fix this mess, and he isnt
2006-09-23 14:59:12 · 4 answers · asked by latin_lover585 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first off it is a big deal,you have someone you love and want to share your life with but he isn't willing to do the same. if he cared enough he would be doing things with you and taking you places or whatever it takes to show you he really cares but it seems thats not the case.i'm sure you are a fine women and you have needs to and he should tend to them.i don't know if you were hoping to marry him or not but the way he is now should give you a clue what it would be like if you married him.love is a fifty fifty thing between the two parties and unless both are willing to contribute to it then the possibilities of it working out are slim next to none.i think you know what you have to do.life is too short to waste it on someone who is self centered.i hope i didn't discourage you more than you are.i'm by myself but you know? i love helping people and seeing them happy.good luck i know you will do the right thing.a piece of advice think with your heart,it never lies. pete
2006-09-23 15:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it looks like you're in the same position as I once was... And my Ex acted the same way. You may love him, but you might just think you do also. Now I'm not going to tell you which one you are. But I don't want you to get hurt like I did. You need to confront him in a way so that he gets the picture! And if he's still to blind to see it then break it off. He seems to busy to notice or care anyways.
2006-09-23 22:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by PB&J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to is freaking job and tell him that you and him need to talk right now. Screw your homework and go talk to him. If he can't give you atleast five mintues at his job then its not worth it at all. You love him? Well.......If he loved you he'd listen to what you have to say. No time? MAKE TIME.
You can do this, I know you can. Do you know how many girls go through this??? We're talkin about trillions. Don't be one of those girls that go through this. Do yourself a favor and not any harm.
2006-09-23 22:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Cassie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time to move on .
2006-09-23 22:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋