Well lets just say that I have this friend and I really honestly have no friends really but her and she does SO MUCH for me, stuff she don't even know she does. And I have wrote her notes telling her that I appreciate her and wrote notes telling her that she does so much for me and ect... Well I am so shy when it comes to stuff like this. Like I am so shy that say that maybe I want to give her a hug and say I appreciate everything you do for me then I will just chicken out and not say nothing. Like I have tons of notes that I have written for her but I don't know I get nervous and it is nothing that serious... so basically my question here is how do I show her that she does so much... what can I do for her? I feel oh so useless. It makes me feel so useless and empy knowing there is nothing I can do... :( Please give me some useful advice, thanks!
2006-09-23 14:49:39 · 22 answers · asked by Rawr! It's Katie(: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do something for her.
2006-09-23 14:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to show her that you appreciate her then do something for her! If she has a problem, then help her work it out. Think about what she does that makes you appreciate her so much. Try doing similiar things. And if she's your friend then you shouldn't be embarrassed or whatever to give the notes to her. It'll just show her how much more she means to you when she sees that you took the time to write her the little note telling her how much she means. Hope that helps!!
2006-09-23 21:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shyness is sometimes a gift too though you never hear someone say that they have been given the gift of shyness but sometimes people utterly talk too much especially girls LOL
anyway, your friend is very special to you and likewise you are very special to her too... that is why she does soo much for you
she already knows that you are grateful or she wouldn't keep doing the things she is. on your part you don't need to feel shy in thanking her or giving her the notes or a hug or anything... human emotion is not week or in anyway a flaw in character is just a lovely sentiment...
don't feel forced to express your emotions but don't feel forced to keep them inside either... when you really want to hug her or give her a note DO IT and you will feel better and she will be glad you did too
2006-09-23 21:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Beano4aReason 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi :) I think what you should do is you should tell her in person how much she means to you, because she seems like a really nice person whose really special to you. If you really want to write a note write it, if she's as nice as you say then she'll be happy really happy. I dont' really have any friends either Im glad you have at least one friend, so just remember all that she's done for you, and then tell her how much she means to you in person or through that letter, im shy too but sometimes you have to overcome your fears for a true friend.
hope this helps :)
2006-09-23 21:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Via 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who has a hard time telling me thank you for things I have done for her. What she usually does is send me emails. She sends me funny ecards and stuff.
Its not so scary when they are not actually there in front of you.
Maybe once you get used to that, you can share your feelings with her even more. Then the next step is telling her on the phone, then maybe even in person.
2006-09-23 21:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by lajefa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have flowers with a "Thank You for being there for me" note sent to her.
Put your thoughts in an e-mail and hit send before you can change your mind.
Send a note to her parents telling them what a compassionate daughter they have raised.
I'm sure you can think of lots more ways to tell her ... Best of Luck.
2006-09-23 21:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you're very thankful to have her for a friend. I realize you're shy, but that is the best thing you can do. It will help you overcome that little shyness too :) Good luck to you, and I'm glad you have such a great friend.
2006-09-23 21:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Shells 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, why not buy her a little gift even if it isnt her birthday and attach a short note telling her what a wonderful friend she is.
how to overcome ur nervousness or shyness? easy.
once you see her, dont think. close your eyes and immediately give her the gift. by the time you open your eyes, you'll be seing a super big smile on your friend's face.
2006-09-24 03:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by tralala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should surprise her with something she likes to show your appreciation that would break the ice. and then thank her for everything she's done for you. I don't know why you would be so nervous to let her know how you feel ?
2006-09-23 21:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by luuvabear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personaly, I think you have a confidence issue, like what you say doesnt matter. If you tell her, or hug her you will feel a big relief after, screw the notes and just tell her
2006-09-23 21:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have just said a few things so all you need do is DO THEM. If you can not do that try to send her an email OR land mail. Just a THANK YOU FRIEND card would do.
2006-09-23 21:56:02 · answer #11 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋