i took care of my grandpa for 10 yrs no one else cared for him or came to see him just me and my husband when he died he left me 50,000.00 now my mom hates me she hasnt spoke to me for 7 yrs when i call her she hangs up on me will she ever forgive him or me??
2006-09-23 14:44:13 · 13 answers · asked by harley w 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you don't need her forgiveness. she needs yours.
2006-09-23 14:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were there when your help was needed-- its a shame that our family members act this way when somebody close by passes away.i was left executor of my moms estate when she died. my brother is mad because i havent sold the place and shared the income with him. i was here when 6 years before my mom passed. i did all i could for her while she was alive. no other family member came to help except my aunt and she did so out of her own good will. you have done nothing wrong and in fact you should be praised for your time and effort in a job well done. its not easy seeing a person you love die. but you were there when neededand deserve every cent he left you-- perhaps in time your family will realize their mistake and treat you better-- as they say-- time heals all wounds and learn to forgive those who mistreat you. the lord knows of your problems and prayer works wonders :)
2006-09-23 21:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by james_a_willis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've had something like that happen in our family.When my great uncle died in 2004 my grandmother blamed my mother for taking all of his money when someone else had drained the account.They got over it but they're still distant. Sorry this happened to you,but you're mother is the one wrong not you
2006-09-23 21:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money is indeed the root of all evil. He heart is bitter for wrong reasons. Love her. Make your part right. Then the rest is up to her. Continue praying for her - pray for God to heal and restore. He's in that business you know.
2006-09-24 01:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by skevans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to forgive her self first.
2006-09-23 21:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by knujefp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mom's a b itch in the true sense of the word
2006-09-23 21:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Crashovdr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about it??? They all showed their true colors years ago. Don't set yourself up with her....stop calling her, will you??? Go about your business and live your life.....you deserve it.
2006-09-23 21:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray for your mother maybe one day she will see the error of her ways.
2006-09-23 21:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm really sorry.
hey give her the money then she might forgive you.
2006-09-23 21:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by PRiiNCESS LiiZ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a very very helpful woman.i hope to have a friend like you.
goodluck,
madeline
2006-09-23 21:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I lost them because of a stupid cat..
2006-09-23 21:48:36 · answer #11 · answered by thegirlsnextdoor2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋