Is it ok to be a virgin when you're 20? I feel embarassed. What will guys who are far more experianced think? Should you just get it over with?
2006-09-23 14:22:27 · 18 answers · asked by Heidi D 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I've got like no experiance...I don't want to look like an idiot
2006-09-23 14:25:38 · update #1
I would be proud. You should not be ashamed. It means you have not subjected yourself to just anybody.
Wait until a special guy comes along, and have sex when you are ready. Don't push it.
2006-09-23 14:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by ~~0o0~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's perfectly fine to still be a virgin at 20! I was a virgin until I was 32 (my choice). There is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about!
Most guys will think very highly of girls who are still virgins. If any don't, they're not the ones you should be with anyway.
Don't feel pressured to sleep with anyone. Do it when you feel ready and with someone who loves and cares for you really. With some guys, sex is all they want and they will drop you after. If anyone pressures you, drop them.
After all, there are a lot of STDs around and you don't need to get any of them.
Keep on, girl!
2006-09-23 14:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is okay to be a virgin when you are 20. guys shouldn't care whether or not you're a virgin!! and no, you shouldn't just get it over with b/c your virginity is the most precious thing that you own and you shouldn't give it to just anyone. The right time will come so just have some patience.
2006-09-23 14:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by nikkifever108 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've nothing to be embarassed about. For women, you've got no expectations to live up to anyway. Hell, most guys would jump at the chance to "teach" a virgin, because its not like you've got someone else to compare their sexual prowess, or lack thereof, to.
Here's some advice from a guy... DON'T do like pornstars do.
2006-09-23 14:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by Adam C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's ok, take your time with this. You want to be very sure it's time cause you've only got it once and when it's gone, it's gone. I lost mine very young and there's been many times when it's been thought about and regretted! Experience doesn't matter when you find the right person. If the person is right, they'll take time to teach you and love sharing it.
2006-09-23 14:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by lisag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is NOTHING to be ashamed of!!! good job.
never just"get it over with" losing your virginity is a very special thing (im sure not a lot of people agree with me) if your worried about what other guys will think than they dont deserve the time of day from you.
im 26 and the only person ive ever slept with is my husband, and im the only one hes ever slept with
dont be ashamed. not too many people can say that.
2006-09-23 14:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by ♥charlies angel♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its cool that u are a virgin. It means you are smart. Dont be embarassed. Wait til you are involved in a meaningful relationship! Dont lose it just cause or you WILL regret it. Trust me on that one.
2006-09-27 14:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg, you should be happy! Don't worry about what anyone thinks. And when you find the right guy, you'll feel proud that you waited because he'll be happy too. DO NOT do anything just because anybody else has.
2006-09-23 14:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by flaca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha. Im a virgin, 20, and male. Almost 21 and im average looking, i think,, well at least thats what my mommy tells me.
2006-09-23 14:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by roncho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 21 when I had sex for the first time. The only person I have had sex with is the man I married. I think it is great that you have waited
2006-09-23 15:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by copchick2m7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋