dont get me wrong he is not propositioning her but he does lay the compliment on thick im not saying she is not deserving of them however this guy is married why would he even compliment her on her appearence or smell or be conserned if she is having a bad day what do you think
2006-09-23 14:13:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he's married, I agree with you.
2006-09-23 14:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, he finds your wife attractive.
But, this is an issue of trust. If your wife is worth your trust, then don't get so upset and worry about his intentions because aside from his intentions, if she is a faithful wife, she won't take part in anything with him.
It's her job, so there's nothing you can do about him... his "overly complimenting comments" are concerns for his wife.. not for you.
Ask your wife to ignore him, at least she was honest about it with you when she told you (that means she wouldn't take part in an affair) and if things like that persist and he crosses the line then ask her to speak to the boss about harassment.
2006-09-23 14:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you compliment her when she smells or dresses good?
I am in a different pair of shoes than you, but if it was my wife worked and someone did that I would be happy.
Maybe she would talk to him, because we seldom speak to each other. We disagree on several things. What I like, she does not like, and what she likes I do not like. If this makes any sense.
2006-09-23 15:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like golf? cause if you do grab your nine iron and beat this guy over the head till he gets the message. Cause if he continues to be "nice" to your wife. pretty soon he'll be "nicer" and then you're screwed. You could do it that way, or else just watch your wife carefully. If you're wife does something different, that your wife wouldn't normally do then something is up, and if there is you know where to go swing your golf club...
2006-09-23 14:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by deais74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has a friend (girl) he talks to alot. He says compliments to me about her. But I think they are just friends, it is hard not to get jelouse, but you have to trust your wife regardless of if he is atracted to her or not. If there are other signs that for sure they are both geting invoved then you can worry. But sometimes that can drive a marriage crazy if there is excessive jelousy.
2006-09-24 05:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by marygold2012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that everyone flirts a little bit. Not intentionally even. People including my Mother and my Husband say I flirt all the time. I dont see how but they say I do. It means nothing unless he gets too friendly! And what do you care? you have her.
2006-09-23 14:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by lisapj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked with your wife about this? What does she think? Co-workers can be a weird thing. There's a guy I work with that I don't like, but he's always really friendly to me, and I'm friendly back just to get along at work. He's a goof ball and I'd never be friends with him off work, but at work we have to get along so I let him do his digs and say his things just to get along, but my husband knows all about it, and is aware of it too. Talk with her about it, but not in anger, about being concerned.
2006-09-23 14:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was a lot like this, but if you trust your wife you have nothing to worry about. Just back off and let her be her own person. If she strays, then you know it wasn't meant to be.
2006-09-23 14:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Aubrey's mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have enough trust in your wife and enough confidence in yourself to not make a big issue out of it.
I mean if your wife was truely interested in him, she would not mention him or his words or actions to you at all.
2006-09-23 14:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depend on what he is saying to her. if he just giving her a compliment on her cloths or her perfume i dont think its flirting at all
2006-09-23 14:22:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋