I have one child and am with my child's father. You see, we met before I went to the other side of the world. When I got there, I found out I was pregnant and then returned to have the baby near my family and my partner's excited family. Now, almost three years later, I feel a nagging in my soul that is telling me we never had that much in common to begin with and are only together for the sake of our child. We get along great, and he loves me alot, but "it"just doesn't seem there for me. WHAT DO YOU THINK, O GREAT VOID?
2006-09-23 14:11:59 · 4 answers · asked by anne b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What a tough position your in, but its not the end of the world. If things are great for him but not great for you then something is definitely wrong and its not a relationship that is making you happy. Its terrific that you two get along for the baby's sake but it has to work for the adults as well. There is never a good time to bring the subject up of how you are feeling so maybe you can let him know that the two of you need some serious time alone to get things sorted out. Another thing "Don't ever stay together for the child" I made that mistake and trust me, it just never works out that way. You can be supportive of your baby whether you are with his father or not. You two have to agree that the most important thing is his welfare. This should be done in positive settings. Its possible to raise a very well rounded child even when the parents arent together, but working together is important. He will feel loved by both of you. Good luck!!
2006-09-23 14:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your taking a very special man for granted .He is the father of your child and honey i was single a long time no one will love a child in the exact same way as a real dad will.The only way you should leave is if he hits you or cheats on you.Do you understand that if you left him in 6 months you would be crawling back because its a cold sick world out there and dating is no exception.Spice things up give it your whole heart its just a rough patch.
2006-09-23 21:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds to me like you guys need to spicen things up, tell him what you feel like you're not getting enough of, ask him if there's anything he wants.
if that doesn't work then maybe you should move on, just make sure the father can stay in the childs life.
2006-09-23 21:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by phalsephasod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you ask questions like this one it's time to go -your soul knows best
2006-09-23 21:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋