Hi Tony,
I'm sorry my letter made you angry. You must understand that there is going to be some frustration when you haven't heard from someone in over 2 months. Since your last visit I called twice with no reply. You know how I feel about that! So would you! Come on it's been over 2 months! Why all of a sudden do you want to talk to me?! I was angry. Look at that letter and realize that there are things about you I don't want in my life anymore. This being the last example. I've had enough. It doesn't mean you are a bad person like I said I was never out to change you. We just have to accept the fact that there are things about us that do not coinside with each other. It's that simple Tony. We aren't bad people. We were in love and we both had to compromise ourselves to be or feel happy within our relationship. I just don't feel that's right and it did not make neither one of us happy. I don't just blame you!
I'm glad you met someone. That makes me happy. You being happy will make me happy as long as you don't hate or resent me. I shouldn't have said that I did love you, I love you Tony. There are lots of things that I love about you and US. Love can also make a person go crazy and lose control of oneself and I refuse to do that anymore. I am moving on like yourself. I'm just trying to keep my head above water and still have fun with my kids and myself. I don't want to be involved in a relationship with a man right now. As for yourself......all the power to you! I'm glad you still have it in you. As for your family..I know I've always joked around about the whole Whop thing but please be proud of it! It should always be about family! The family is a whole network that keeps us going! You should feel very gracious to have a family like your own!!!!!
So lets just keep moving on Tony and not feel angry towards one another. You were right about the fact that 2 people can be so much in love with one another than to feel hatred or anger is just weird. I am being honest with you now and have always been. I will always have a place for you in my soul!
Sandy
2006-09-23 14:03:11 · 7 answers · asked by CROSS 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey sometimes we have to go on your doing the right thing,
you will find someone and when you do they wouldn't leave you like that.
if you go out and find someone but still have feeling for him then go out with him as friends and see what happens, but for now since this is all extrame for you cry your eyes out for a few day and if you still feel sad do something fun and try to keep your mind off him ok,
we all know the old saying there's more fishy in the sea look around he's not the only one
2006-09-23 14:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lovergurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused...but it sounds like you broke up him and now he's calling you or writing you again. ??
Going just on your letter, it sounds like you already know what the answer to your own question is...you said there were things about him that you don't want in your life anymore....and that you were both compromising parts of yourselves for the relationship. You know what you want and want you don't want in a relationship....if you're considering going back with this guy even after you've already determined that he's not everything you want, then your motives are probly off. It's probly more about being lonely, or scared or comfortable.
Past behavior predicts future behavior....that's all you need to know. Find someone else.
2006-09-23 14:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by lutl424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. You are not in a marriage, so the rules are different. You will not get over this relationship, but you can learn to live from now on...not in the past. In the future, if you value the relationship seek counseling. You don't have to be married to get help before it is too late. If things are not right, then the counseling will help you deal with that fact as well.
2006-09-23 14:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres a tissue for your issue.
2006-09-23 14:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by shellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seems that you are doing fine!so good luck to you and tony!life goes on! :) be happy and dont worry!
2006-09-23 14:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ghass 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk about airing out your dirty laundry!
2006-09-23 14:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
zzzzzzzz sorry fell asleep what was it you asked
2006-09-23 14:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by rradboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋