My woman is sexually unresponsive saying, she wants no sex before marriage. but yet expects financial commitments from me even though we are not married yet.
2006-09-23 13:56:48 · 22 answers · asked by uptownmember 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ha ha ha wake up man and smell the roses, she's getting it somewhere else, you are not going to seduce her, she's seduced you into thinking that you can.!!! STOP PAYING THE BILLS.!!!
2006-09-23 14:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by JAM123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your woman is not religiously biased. She just knows the meaning of self respect. =) More so, you should be proud by how patient and devoted your woman is for keeping her virginitty (I assume she's still a virgin) only for you until the day you get married. Well, a virgin has a choice. She can choose to have sex with you and lose it. But any other girl who's already done it, will never be virgin again. She's saving it for you. And what kind of financial commitments is she expecting from you anyway? Paying for dinner or something? You two can't be living together yet I think, so I don't she's expecting you to pay for the rent or other expenses in the house. Hmmn.. I think I have to know what kind of financial commitments are being referred to in your question. =)
2006-09-23 20:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by boongaii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of financial commitments? Helping out isn't a bad thing. That is what your suppose to do when your in a commited relationship. Just because someone isn't sleeping with you doesn't mean that you should spend money on them. Whats up with that? You should be glad to have a GOD fearing woman in this day and time. If you feel like she is just using you for your $ then that is something different, but to be upset because your not bumpin uglies in the dark & you have spent $ on her is wrong. You should spend because you want to help her out, not because your hoping to get her in bed. If its only about sex, let her go, dont compromise her religious beliefs.
2006-09-23 14:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Queen J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should respect her wish and continue to maintain your friendship without making any financial commitments. Just treat her as a good friend and be nice to her until both of you are ready for marriage. If you just want sex, you should move on to someone who wants the same thing.
2006-09-23 14:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by lg traveler 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. A woman not easily seduced make a good and faithful wife. If financial commitments or investment if you like to
call it is your concern, then marry her and get what you want.
2006-09-23 15:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she has picked the wrong man to want to give her virginity up to u obviously have no respect for her if u are so unwilling to let her have her own beliefs and views on something so important shame on you if sex bothers u so much end Ur relationship and go sow Ur wild oats elsewhere and let this girl find a strong man willing to support the beliefs
2006-09-23 23:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by fifi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit thinking about your own needs and think about her. Your being so selfish thinking about your own needs. She's got her head on her shoulders and she's saving herself for her husband on her wedding night, like she should. I admire her for her strong beliefs in God, and the teachings of God. She sounds like a Godly woman and personally I don't think she deserves a piece of trash like you who is only thinking about sex.
Grow up and quit thinking about yourself. Like others have said, you give her money expecting sex in return, what do you think she is? A prostitute? I don't even do that to my wife, and would never do that. Your No real man and and you don't even deserve to be called a boy. Your nothing but a pervert.
2006-09-23 14:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR woman???? Obviously NOT. The message is she does not want to have sex with you before marriage, that means NO POONTANG before marriage. Is it clear now??? You should be proud of her because she wants to save herself for her husband on her wedding night. Your woman??? B/S, she is her own woman and I congratulate her. Don't be a jerk and quit pushing her. Financial arrabgements, are you saying that is give her money she owwes you poontang. You are saying she a ho, money for sex... Shame on you you are not any likd of a man.
2006-09-23 14:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Erm saying that when you take over the world , you will ban god , religion and books, and everyone will worship you.. so now is her chance to proove her self to you as a potentual 1st wife and perhaps queen !.
2006-09-23 15:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by robynbiker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you pressure her and she gives in and then you marry her someday, she'll have resentment about it for the rest of your lives.. just hurry up and get married.. then you can make her feel guilty if she won't have sex because according to the Bible, husbands and wives are not allowed to withhold sex from each other..
2006-09-23 13:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋