He's a good guy, we're friends, I care about him but he manages to put me on major guilt trips (still)
2006-09-23 13:54:50 · 17 answers · asked by cat lady 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't listen to him...read a book, watch a movie, do a cross word puzzle, try some sudoku, reline your cabinets, do laundry, watch America's Most Wanted, look at cartoons, write an autobiography on the dryer lint...lol do SOMETHING besides give in to him! He's your ex for a reason baby doll! You can message me and we'll talk about how stupid SOME men are! ooh get rocks and throw them at him cause "boys are stupid...throw rocks at them!" :) well at least laugh at my advise which I'm sure you're doing right now! Have a good night hon!
2006-09-23 14:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by Miss K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if this guy is giving you guilt trips, what is he 9 years old? are you in high school all of a sudden? He's just doing this because this is the only way he knows how to think, and obviously he's doing a good job at it. The one thing you need to do is get these guilt trips off your mind, is to not listen to him. You can continue to have a normal conversation with him, but if he acts like a little girl giving you these major guilt trips you can walk away with your head held high...cause you're better than that. And if he can't see that. He's the one thats missing out. Good luck to you.
2006-09-23 14:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by deais74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can put yourself on guilt trips. If you did nothing don't let it brother you. If he is really a good guy, he would not put you on these guilt trips. When my wife found someone else, I wished her a good life. We stayed friends until she died. There is no reason to hate each other. But don't let anyone put you on any kind of trip. When someone does that they are guity of what they are a making you feel quity of. Good luck.
2006-09-23 15:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by foreman_mack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been by that, although I in reality have one son. that's fairly confusing i understand. i had to end all of it at factors, yet I made it by and so will you. if you're like me you received't forget your spouse and the information etc. Six years has previous and that i nonetheless imagine of them. your toddlers will be positive as long as they have both one in each of you of their lives. it truly is not an analogous, yet love them and spend as a lot time as you could with them. once you should furnish more advantageous achieve this, to save it civil. My ex merely had a hysterectomy and then had save on with up surgical treatment. I cried both time, so your feeling will very last. you should move on, discover yet another lady that you ca percentage existence with!
2016-11-23 18:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's something to consider. My position is that no guy who "put me on major guilt trips" can also be a good guy. Good guys don't do that.
2006-09-23 14:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you allowing him to do this? This is a choice that you have. Nobody can make you feel a certain way, you allow them to have this control. Decide to not do it any more, don't talk with him or else tell him to stop it that you don't have to listen to it any more. How long will you allow him to do this to you, 1 year after you're divorced, 5 years? Forget him and move on.
2006-09-23 13:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by trainer53 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to yahoo chat and chat up some some sweet young thing (not too young) that will give you loads of attention. Late night Cinemax, Lifetime or Nick At Night might take your mind elsewhere. Or, email me, and we'll compare!
2006-09-23 17:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by persnickety1022 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is calling you on the phone don't answer
rent a movie (funny one)
keep busy
as for the guilt trips you no longer together tell him to take it with someonelse with your blessing
2006-09-23 14:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go to hell cause he just trying to keep his foot in the door. Don't let him do that to you. My husband is the same way. They think they are able to do what they wanna and we are just suppose to be willing and waiting until they are ready to come in. Girl let your hair down and go out and do your thing.
2006-09-23 14:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by tessie35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think and write down all the reasons u don't need to feel guilty and why then when he starts in throw what u came up with in his face and tell him to leave u alone
2006-09-23 14:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋