This girl at my school was really mean to me last year i mean really mean and now she is being nice to me and on friday when we were in math she said she was sorry for being mean to me and she said that i was a really cool person and she would like to get to no me better but i don't no should i give her a second chance or not?
2006-09-23 13:51:29 · 25 answers · asked by ~DTP~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They always turn on you. Stay away from her, she's probably doing it to trick you. Plus it's not like a person who harasses you for a whole year changes their mind about you out of the blue. Usually if someone is really sorry for something they had done they would apologize in a private and appropriate place...C'mon a math class is not a proper place to apologize to someone that you have been harassing for a year. If I were really going to apologize to someone I would write them a letter or something and be nice to them for more than just a day. Forgive her but don't give her a second chance...She'll take advantage of that second chance and turn on you...I had a similar issue like this before...just stay away from her.
2006-09-23 13:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
There is someone I gave quite a few chances to, and every time I believed her. I still would today, oddly enough. Some people just can't help how they are. They want to do right most of the time though. Give her a chance, and remember that saying about keeping your friends close, but your enemies closer. Be careful, but try not to be paranoid around her all the time either. She might just want help in math, she might really be sorry.
2006-09-23 21:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her a second chance. When I started 7th grade I had no one to sit with at lunch, so I just decided to sit at the table where all the "bully" type people sit. This kid named Brandon was there, he was known as the biggest asshole in elementry school. When I sat at the table him and his friends were talking about forming a band, and they needed a guitarist, so I spoke up and said "Hey, I got a bunch of equipment, and can play guitar pretty good." So he came over with his bass after school that day, and then from that point on we were friends. We played in some bands together, got stoned and drunk together....middle school was a ******* PARTY!!!!! We did so much stupid ****, but it was all worth it. I had to move because of family issues, it kinda sucks because we don't talk much anymore.
2006-09-23 20:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How incredibly awesome of her to take such a mature step. I say give her a chance and if she is mean again, at least you did your part and can know that you went into this honestly. But she could end up being one of those life long friends that really just wanted to make a change in how she treats others and asked you to forgive her. I strongly encourage you to give it a try.
2006-09-23 20:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by angelofdreams19881 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You should. Every person deserves a second chance. And I guess her second chance is to be friends with you. Apologizing is always good. You should be friends with her. It doesn't hurt. The more the merrier.
2006-09-23 22:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should just see if she really wants to be your friend or if she just is being a biotch! if she really wants to be your friend why was she mean to you last year? what did you ever do to her? if nothing and you were me i would say sorry, you ruined your chance last year maybe you should be a little nicer to people!!!
2006-09-23 21:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to give her a second chance. If you feel that you shouldn't, then don't give her a chance. If you do, be careful, because she may be pretending to be nice. Best of luck.
2006-09-23 20:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by gwen 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give her a second chance - just be cautious. People can change, but a leopard never changes it's spots.
2006-09-23 20:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by risa131313 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give her a chance and be the better person.
2006-09-23 20:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Ed 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't be in a hurry. She may be up to something unpleasant to you. There must some reason for her change in attitude. Just take things one day at a time.
2006-09-23 20:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋