I am not very well endowed, and I can't do much to satisfy my wife with the equipment I have. do you think she wishes I were bigger, or would it be normal if she fantasized about a guy with a bigger package.
2006-09-23 13:46:17 · 20 answers · asked by Steve J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to learn other ways to please her!! Size is only one part of the equation....
2006-09-23 15:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak for myself....but I'm guessing she doesn't fantasize about you being bigger sized if you are doing things that she likes and enjoys. You don't have to have a large package to satisfy a woman....I think that's one of the biggest misconceptions from men. You also can satisfy her in many other ways that don't include using your package. I also think that your confidence level would have a lot to do with your performance....and your own ability to enjoy what is going on. I say....talk to your wife about her thoughts on your size. She may think it's perfect for her. If she's fantasizing about a bigger package, it's probly because you're not putting enough effort into the act itself. Find out what she likes, wants and fantasizes about...and do that. Stop worrying about the bulge in your jeans.
2006-09-23 13:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by lutl424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how long you have been married. But wasn't she aware of your "package" size before you got married?! If she thought size was all that mattered, and if she indeed recognized that your package was "small", do you think she would have married you?!
What you have to do is stop comparing yourself. On second thought, I want you to compare yourself one last time!...Compare your package and its abilities... to a man who is paralyzed from the waist down!!!
Stop feeling inferior, and start asking your wife what it is that pleasures her. There is much more to making love than how well you use your "tool"...communication and the desire to please is all any woman could ask for!
Don't lose too much time putting this formula into practice, because if you think size is all that counts, you will eventually convince her of the same mindset!!
2006-09-23 13:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Linda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't the size of the boat that counts; it's how the boat rocks.
Work on relaxing more during sex and also check up on the internet on different positions that you could try.
As long as you're trying new things and giving it your all (which takes some practice but eventually you'll be a pro whether or not you're smaller in that area) then you'll satisfy your woman.
Perhaps your insecurity is making you feel that you cannot satisfy her and therefore you're not trying as hard as you can.
2006-09-23 13:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might be fantasizing, but she's your wife and is apparently happy with you for more than just sex.
Perhaps you can reward her by having an open marriage; you might get some variety and she might get some massive shlong in return for her devotion to you. She's a keeper - tell her that all the time.
- Open for 16 happy yrs
2006-09-23 13:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people, women or men, fantasize about sex during sex. I doubt she's thinking about your size though... Size isn't as big of an issue as men think. If we [women] love you and want to be with you, the physical attraction is enough.
2006-09-23 13:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by goddess_veronica54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably does not fantasize about bigger guys, but she might fantasize about guys she finds attractive in other ways.
I mean, don't we all a little?
2006-09-23 13:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy what do you need your equip for? You have a mouth dont you? I have a friend he is paralized from the waste down he cant feel a thing. He would kill for what you have. And he still satisfies my friend Michelle. She says he is the best!
2006-09-23 13:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by lisapj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's not compaining don't worry about it. There are other things you know. When I fantasize about a guy it usually doesn't involve the size of his member.
2006-09-23 13:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
size shouldn't matter. if she "fantasizes" about a bigger package, maybe u 2 shouldn't be married. sorry.
2006-09-23 14:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by harli 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All woman fantasize about other men, hello, I'm sure if you put your mind to it you'd figure out ways to make her happy
2006-09-23 13:49:40 · answer #11 · answered by lvwire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋