I have been engaged to a guy for 2 years. I have recently ran into an ex who i went to hang out with and he kissed me not exactly a little kiss either. well i felt i was lying to my fiance so i told him all that happened. no i did not kiss him back i actually pushed him away. both times. so what do i do my fiance is still hurt over it.
2006-09-23 13:38:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you truly love him and want to make your soon to be marriage work, you need to sit down with him and discuss it like adults. No secrets, no arguing, no lying. Just two adults talking about how they feel and coming to a conclusion. If he still is hurt, it's his problem. You have apologized to him and have shown him your sorry. If he can't get over it then that is his problem.
2006-09-23 13:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you told him what happened. I guess your fiance should be happy that you told him, but what do you expect? How would you feel if he told you that same story about him and his ex. I guess just give him time. Also, stop hanging out with your ex when your fiance isn't around.
2006-09-23 20:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect? You go meet your ex b/f and don't expect he'll try something? How would you feel if he did this to you? Apologize to him ans don't put yourself into situations that'll cause this kind of trouble. He might tell you he believes that you pushed the other guy away, but he will always wonder.
2006-09-23 20:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure he is gonna be hurt. he should appreciate the honesty and realize that you love him and you did push the other guy away. this should tell him something. get him to talk about how he feels about it and what you can do to help him get over it. let him know that you love him and not the other guy.
2006-09-23 20:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by panther 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he realizes the fact that you were honest with him and he has no need to worry because he can trust that you will tell him anything
2006-09-23 20:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by theone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry him.
He sounds too immature.
2006-09-23 20:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by queen_of_aksum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋