kk well i have a gf and we've been together for a couple of days but its just i dont talk to her much though cuz i'm so shy..what should i do to stop being so shy..its really hard..serious answers please? :-<
2006-09-23 13:35:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
dude just break the shell you are in... it's that easy. just be you if she doesn't like you for you give her the boot.... do it for yourself bro, statisticaly people who are more outgoing get more chances in life and tend to be more successful... break out
2006-09-23 13:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by deejay.thompson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This may sound silly, but if you have a best friend try talking to him, or her and pretending it's your girlfriend. Practice on being relaxed just as you would with an old buddy. Ask her what her interests are and compare them with yours. Find a common interest and you could end up talking for hours. Remember why you hooked in the first place and concentrate on those things.
Maybe listening to some music you both like would help, or watching a movie.....
Good luck ! ! !
2006-09-23 20:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`m a shy guy also. Helps to have something in "common" to talk about. Just go from there.
2006-09-23 20:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by brock 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting off the internet and actually having a real conversation and develop ure people skills...bet you could talk to her new gf if u were in a chat room or a forum or something right?
2006-09-23 21:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by james p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to bring up a topic that you are passionate about it will help you open up and show her some of what you are about. This helps me when I meet new people but make sure you have more than one topic just in case she shows no interest in your first one.
2006-09-23 21:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by jesusfreak_357 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over the shyness which is simple, pretend u have known the girl all your life and relax and act normal.
2006-09-23 20:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to get used to her ...watch a movie together, this will give you something to talk about...just be patient , Silence is Golden
2006-09-23 20:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her about her feelings . then your feelings will come out . then everything is out in the open and you wont feel shy anymore
2006-09-23 21:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expose yourself to her, maybe she'll wrap her lips around it and no talking will be necessary.
2006-09-24 03:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u aint a killa u's a p#@%y! ha ha..nah seriously just keep thinkin' how bad u wanna make love 2 that piece,and keep it gangsta KILLA
2006-09-23 20:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋