Confront/Attack or Ignore/Stay silent..Or?
2006-09-23 13:34:20 · 39 answers · asked by nvr2tru 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Break up, move on, and live happily with out him.
Karma will take care of him.
2006-09-23 13:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
First of all? How do you know that he is a lying cheating man? Second of all what have you done that would make him want to lie or cheat? People sometimes forget that it takes two to tango. If you have enough evidence beyond telephone numbers etc. Then I would say the best way to get back at him is to act like you do not care what he has done. While, stepping up your love game as well. I have been on both sides of the fence and trust me when I tell you to make sure that he is lying or cheating or you'll make an *** of yourself.
2006-09-23 15:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by VON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silence is not the answer but attacking with just get him hurt and maybe even police trouble. So try finding a way to talk about how he made you feel. I can't say it will be ok and that it will go away but. If you do the right thing and stand by your man through this he will respect you and maybe not do it again. For some men they don't learn until they loose it all.
2006-09-23 13:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by weldergooroo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. We've all heard two wrongs don't make it right. Well also there is the term what goes around comes around. You can't Make anyone Feel anything. And men don't feel in their heart so insulted like we do as women. They can separate themselves from a bad situation. Which is one reason more men are in the War. They use their mind more so than their heart. That's what they need us for. Just face it the Truth Hurts. "He doesn't respect you or Love you if he lies and cheats. I tried getting back and it just comes back at you again. So spend your energy on YOU. You are important and someone will see it. Just know this. He will feel the way you do someday. It just might not be you that pays him back. But his turn will come.
2006-09-23 13:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life...thats the best way to get a lying, cheating man back. If you stoop to his level you're no better. Be stronger than him and show him that its his loss and if he wants you back you either laugh at him or you close the door on him. It's that simple. Good Luck to you.
2006-09-23 14:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by deais74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and remain silent after that. An attack will only justify his cheating in his own mind.
2006-09-23 17:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know for sure, he lied and cheated than why would you want to waste your time and energy getting back at him. Revenge is never the answer. Just move on and stop talking to him. It's much healthier. What goes around comes around. Eventually his lies and cheating will hurt him without you doing anything.
2006-09-23 13:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way? Completely move on and be happy. I'm not saying this contritely, but completely serious. Revenge is for those people that are insecure and mean spirited and have no life. Just because he's a loser, doesn't mean you have to stoop to his level.
2006-09-23 13:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by Leslie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay silent no no
beat the hell out of him yes , but I should not advocate violence
check each time he lies to you confront him about them
and once you have anough tell him to hit the road
2006-09-23 13:48:01 · answer #9 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well certainly NOT by propagating the lying and cheating. Confront and fix or or just leave. Be the bigger person and try to do the "right thing."
2006-09-23 13:36:34 · answer #10 · answered by c.arsenault 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is my favorite tactic- it drives them nuts. Suddenly stop taking his calls, don't have any further contact with him. Ignore him completely- It will kill him that he can't try and talk his way out of it, make it up to you, or have his cake and eat it too. I mean it, completely cut all ties with him without any explanation at all. When mutual friends ask what happened, simply smile and say, really, that's just between he and I and his sexual reorientation therapist. I'm not comfortable discussing it further.
2006-09-23 13:38:19 · answer #11 · answered by angelofdreams19881 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋