any advice for a person who married to a man for 11 years, left him with their kids for mental abuse. No communication between husband shut her out he does shared things he bought with the family. what his is his. paid half rent nothing more. don't want company over, get piss when things aren't his way. does't hel around the house stay in the bedroom watch sport , on the computer smoke weed and drink budweiers . wife leave he moves in the same apartment complex she in. don't pay child support. drive expensive cars (2) and dont want toa divorce. explain how a person can be so mean and hateful.
2006-09-23 13:30:22 · 10 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't explain that, but you should get a lawyer. Not wanting a divorce doesn't mean anything...you can divorce him nevertheless. The lawyer will help you get child support, and so it will be worth it.
2006-09-23 13:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he was never taught how to be a man. I hear stories like this from men who did not have a healthy relationship with their father or they never knew their father. The best advice that I could give is to pray for him because you had to see some good in him at one point in the relationship. Meanwhile, I would stay as far away from him as possible and keep trying to get that child support.
2006-09-23 17:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you can get a divorce if that's what you want. You really don't have take that **** of him. So what if he moved in the same apartment complex as you. Give his *** something to see. Since he wanna be around you.
2006-09-23 14:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by tessie35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no explaining a complete and utter a s s hole. So file for divorce and move and have a restraining order put on his but turn his a s s in for the drugs anonymously and be done with him.
2006-09-23 13:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by lisapj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calculating that is what he is
he think he is stopping you from moving forward with your life
divorcing him will make it ok for you to date
I am not sure about the state you live in butin certain state divorce don't have to be consented
I am sure he has a lease & bill to prove that he no longer live with you so try to get yor hand on those and take it to a lawyer
to get your child support and divorce
Good Luck
2006-09-23 13:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy for some people to be this way, stay away from him and don't have anything to do with him. He is very bad news.
2006-09-23 13:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you go seek for a legal counsel about this matter. If you won't, you'll be making your life a living hell.
2006-09-23 13:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE WANTS HIS CAKE AND TO EAT IT TO.
FILE AGAINST HIM AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE, HE ISN'T WORTH IT.
IT IS ALSO A CONTROL ISSUE.
2006-09-23 13:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is mentally ill.
2006-09-23 13:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by lakecity21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get hooked on phonics please.
2006-09-23 13:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by shellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋