my dad doesn't know this but last night i saw my dad on the computer wen evryone wuz asleep...and he was watching porn videos and pictures of women in lingerie and sum were even naked....this is not the first time i caught him doing it...should i tell my mom? i luv both my parents, but i don't want them to divorce.
2006-09-23 13:20:13 · 14 answers · asked by surferbabe_jl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
In the words of the Beatles, "Let it be."
No harm was done.
2006-09-23 13:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's the issue...your dad is old enough to look at porn, you are not. I am sure your mom already knows about it and if there are going to be issues, then that is between them. Your best move is not to say a word and don't go sneaking around the house trying to catch your dad watching porn.
2006-09-23 13:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by tko43078 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. To tell your mom would be to "police" their relationship, and I don't think that's a position a child should have to be in. I'm sorry you saw this. Your dad should have been a lot more careful. Have you considered that your mom might not mind or might even know about it?
Without going into your parent's relationship, perhaps you should sit down and tell your dad that it makes you uncomfortable when he does this. That should be enough of a reason for him to stop.
2006-09-23 13:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by morelli26 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont tell your mom anything this is between you and your father . let her find out on her own . write your father a letter and be sure you tell him that your not judgeing him but this worrys you and you love him very much and you dont want him to do this thing even in private because it underminds the love between the three of you and in time could result in problems . divorce isnt necassary here only love . kill your father with kindness and love dont go at this with oh my god dad why . this is a wide spread problem and he needs help but maybe your love is enough to spark his heart to stop or at least think about his actions . make sure your mom dosent see letter and after you give your dad letter hug him and say i love you dad always . good luck
2006-09-23 13:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by sigmond 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men look at porn - even the ones we don't like to think do. Why say anything if it may cause problems? It's not like he's breaking the law or anything. All of the women were above 18?
2006-09-23 13:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is very serious, so ignore the ignorant replies and the stupid people who say that it's "normal."
It's hard to know what to tell you, and you're going to have to decide. A lot of it will probably depend upon your relationship to your parents, but I think maybe you might need to tell your mom. She might already know about it, but not necessarily.
I think that you probably should say something to your dad, also. This is really a tough one.
2006-09-23 13:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
youre dad is a man ! we watch those things ! dont tell your mom its only going to hurt her, just pretend it never happened, remember its normal for men to watch porn, and at least it wasnt gay porn !
2006-09-23 13:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by hunglow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i sow my dad looking playboy too. but i don't Sid nothing because i thing that my mother looking at that thing too let them be there and don;t get in it. In your parents relation because it there life. that doest cause a divorce relax
2006-09-23 13:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-09-23 15:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to worry your dad is normal. He did marry your mom, that means he likes women, don't make it a big deal.
2006-09-23 13:23:19 · answer #10 · answered by sickboy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
STOP spying on your family. It's none of your business and nothing for you to worry about. Also stop trying to be a goody-two-shoes before you cause some damage in other peoples' lives.
2006-09-23 13:23:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋