i caught my fiancee about a month ago on myspace and she told two of her ex's that she loved them??? i confronted her about it she said all it was / was she was just telling them what they wanted to hear... do i believe her??? or ditch her???
2006-09-23 13:20:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, wouldnt you wanna know if she was a cheater before you finalized your decision to marry her...its gonna cost a lot less to dump her now...My ex bf (notice I say ex) told me he was just telling his ex gfs what they wanted to hear and I caught him on a late night phone convo when he thought I had been asleep...I loved him and still love him to death..but have some dignity...I know there a lot of girls out there that want a good guy and dont want to cheat on them...she isnt the only fish in the pond. Good luck sweetie.
2006-09-23 18:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she loved you she wouldn't be telling other people she loves them.sounds to me as if she really strives for attention and she will do what ever it takes to get it.even if it hurts you.that's not love.you would think if she loved you as much as you hope she does she wouldn't want to be away from you.if they asked her to go to bed with them would she say yes just because that's what they wanted to hear? i'm not being ignorant just giving you some things you need to ask yourself.at this stage of the game things don't always get better.you have to ask yourself,is it worth the hurt it puts in you? i went with a women for five years but she didn't want to let go of her x boyfriends five years i put up with it hoping it would turn around and she would change,she didn't .as much as it hurt me i finnally came to the conclusion i had to let her go.my life got better and better as time went on.i look back now and see what a fool i was to go through with what i di.and i thought she was the women of my dreams .not even close
2006-09-23 20:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some chance, but as for me she is trying to to have three affairs at the same time. her behavior will change and she wont give u wat u want as always. but you should be the man here dont let her rule you.and if she is saying that to them then she is definetely saying the same thing to you . and you know what ? i,m sure she told them she is telling you what you want to hear. its up to you to make the right choice.
2006-09-23 20:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sadeology 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually people use the word love alot that dont mean shes in love with them i have an x and i still love him but as a friend i wouldnt worry about it
2006-09-23 20:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely leave her! She obviously doesn't respect you and if you don't give respect to yourself then you are not a man. What kind of a man would be with a woman who cheats and lie to him? Not a real man. So act upon it.
2006-09-23 20:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be the least bit concerned about what they want to hear only what you want to hear. Sounds really fishy to me. Dump her.
2006-09-23 20:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by Cherrybomb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well why does she have to tell them what they want to hear if their her x's , id say that this is a potential problem for your future but i wouldn't dump her over it . id just make it clear you wont tolerate that crap
2006-09-23 20:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is encouraging them,you need to sit down and have a serious talk with her.
2006-09-23 20:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude sounds like this girl has priblems tell her u need some space for a while.
2006-09-23 20:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mitchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a player to me. Ditch her........
2006-09-23 20:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by brock 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋