Girl LIED about her age and we had sex ONE TIME 15 days later she tested positive went to doctor 20 days later. Due date is wrong because she didnt tell doctor WHEN we had sex. Cut me off as well as my parents so we don't know anything. Will not have any contact with her or the child even IF it's mine. Her parents haven't contacted us either what's that? If your 15-16 year old daughter came home pregnant wouldn't you? Don't tell me to wait til birth and DNA test. I don't have that much time. I'm in a profession that frowns (like all should) on having sex with minors. Like I've said she lied about her age and now I'm the one who is suffering because this slut decided SHE wanted to have a baby. Any suggestiuons out side of having a vasectomy like my parents suggest. Kind of late for that.
2006-09-23 12:44:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Thank you to all of you who took the time and effort to answer my question. Don't necessarily agree with all of them but none the less thanks.
Issues 1. to lisago it wasn't unprotected sex and for arz9kid and jane-doe you would be amazed at what SOME 16 year olds look like now days. I did ask her for a drivers license cuz she wanted to drive my car but she "explained" that she didn't have one because she couldn't afford the drivers training behind the wheel cost. We have to pay for it in this state. AND the people at this party including her friends told me "yes" she was 17 going to be 18 in two weeks. So..... Yes I know I was an idiot! The only blame I am putting on her is not taking my opinions into the mix and choosing what SHE wants. Not what's good for this childor our families or even herself. Also found out she was at another party this week drinking and smoking weed.
2006-09-24 11:04:53 · update #1
If the child is urs take care of it don't be a worthless father. She probably didn't want 2 tell u because she was sacred of what u thought or might say 2 her. approach her in a nice way and talk about it
2006-09-23 12:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I understand you issue... The only thing you can do is wait for the baby to be born. She can pursue a DNA test and then you will know. In the mean time you should try and be more careful of who you are with.
A friend of mine is serving time because he was with a minor (she also lied).... a bunch of us were talking saying men should card the girls they are sleeping with to make sure of their age!
I wouldn't recommend a vasectomy. If you happen to meet a woman you want to be with for the rest of your life and she wants kids it may ruin it. Simply use protection and try to refrain from intercourse with a woman who is not also taking precautions.
2006-09-23 13:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and how old did you think the girl was???? It's pretty easy to tell what a 15 year old girl looks like! Anyway, how do you know the baby is even yours?! It was stupid what you did, but, you can't change that now. If you are a mature, responsible man you should try and speak to her parents preferably her mother, she might be less aggressive towards you than the father would be. AND PLEASE---NO MORE ONE NIGHT STANDS WITH KIDS!!!Thats kinda sick anyways.
2006-09-23 13:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm answering your other question (it's closed for new answers and you don't have contact info listed). There used to be a way to type in a command and the user name, but people told me that's been disabled. It was /goto username. If you know what room they're in but can't find it, you can still type in /join room name. Other than that, just asking the person which room they're in will work. :)
2006-09-23 13:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by elizabeth_ashley44 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad judgement on your part, but sh!t happens. Don't beat yourself up about it and just wait for the test results come in. Sounds like shes been around a few times so the baby may not be yours.
2006-09-23 12:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of age unless she throws you in jail, you still have rights to the kid..Plus, how do you know she did not lie..15 days is a little soon to detect that..Maybe you should wait it out unless your not worried about jail time..
2006-09-23 12:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by aimlynsmi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about stop blaming everyone else. Why are u having unprotected sex in the first place. u deserve EVERYTHING u get, fool! I feel so sorry for the poor child not a selfish **** like u!
2006-09-23 12:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by Serry's mum 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ok1.don't curse if the baby is yours it dosen't need to hear that2.you shouldn't have made out before you were married3.calm down4.if the baby happens to be yours love it don't abbandon it5.tell the girl you have to know something,it's your baby too put your foot down6.are you going to jail for sleeping with a minor?
2006-09-23 13:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can take it to court after u find out you find out if its urs anymore
2006-09-23 13:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
couldnt u tell her frikin age bye her breasts
2006-09-23 13:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by drz9kid 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋