2006-09-23 12:18:17 · 22 answers · asked by Diamond G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take your time, don't move in with him as yet. Bpth of u guys r young and have ur whole life ahead of u. U still need 2 grow up and finish school so u can work 4 ur own money, so if that guy wants 2 leave u will be able to mantain urself. If u don't finish school u will be dependent on him 4 everything and he will have control over u. He probably loves u but he still also need 2 grow up and be a man and let u finish school. remember that love will break ur heart, love changes everything, love takes no less than everything. It's ur choice and i have adviced u,
2006-09-23 12:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boy friend should, and could be considered a pedophile in just about any state in the Union for being 19 and going with a 13 year old. It could be serious trouble for him and men that age and older are now going to jail for having sex with girls older than you but less than 18.
At 13 you fell hormones, not love:). Give it time or he will make you older before you time.
It may surprise you but usually moms are right anbout daughters, it's jsut those darn hormones geting between them.
2006-09-23 12:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little girl, I want you to do something for me...........stand back and look at the question you wrote.......do you think this would get you a passing grade in Eng/ Lit. class? How are you going to get a job with a 6th or 7th grade education? Besides, your bf will be in big trouble for even being with you. You are a minor, not even at the age of consent, your mom might be having problems and not try to stop you from doing this, but someone else will. He'll go to JAIL if you try this stunt, you're not grown up enough for something like this........this idea is nothing but a big can of worms.......and you're swimming right in it. YOU KEEP YOUR BUT WHERE IT BELONGS.....AT HOME WITH YOUR MOM!!!
2006-09-23 12:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by veteranpainter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No do not move in with this man. Mothers and daughters do have there ups and downs sometimes but that doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Does you guys not realize that you can get into some big trouble he is 19 and you are only 13. Please give this some thought about what you are thinking. Good luck!
2006-09-23 12:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey You are to young to get involved with any man right now. If you move in with him He could and probably will land in jail. if you have sex with him it is called statutory rape because of your age. Nothing can be that bad between you and your mother that can't be fixed. You need to grow up before you know what real love is anyway. I hope you will heed the advice of all who are trying to help you. Please don't even consider this as an answer. You are so wrong if you do. God Be with you.
2006-09-23 15:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay at college and get a factor time activity. a brilliant form of individuals say they'll take a twelve months off and in no way bypass lower back. that occurred to my buddy and almost occurred to me. i understand your mum and dad cant provide up you from moving yet whilst youre not paying hire now it ought to be a solid theory to stay domicile and keep for a automobile. you have the best of the two worlds considering the fact which you may see your boyfriend yet you wont would desire to artwork finished time to assist pay costs. practise is the main mandatory undertaking on your destiny.
2016-12-18 15:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by alsobrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up little girl. He is using you for your young fresh body. If by mistake you fall pregnant he will disappear very quickly.
You have a long life ahead of you don't mess up now.
Remember at the end of the day the person that will always be around is your mother.
Please listen to her and not your young mixed up hormones although it is hard for you.
2006-09-23 12:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by diana h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Please stay in school.
2. You're 13...he's 19, there are laws against that.
3. Why didn't your mom have that "boyfriend" arrested?
4. When they're that much older than you, they usually use to "love" word in order to get your virginity, possibly get you pregnant, then leave you.
From your short staement, it's pretty clear that you aren't a complex thinker, but I think I broke this down enough for you to understand.
2006-09-23 12:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful Insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should learn how to spell and at 13 what the hell r you doing thinking of moving in with a 19 year old boy i have no prob. with going out and stuff but moving in would be a serious mistake you would be jeopardising his future and yours plus you guys won't stay together for long anyway.
2006-09-23 12:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on girl!!!! DON'T move with him....your mom will ALWAYS love you because she gave birth to you and cares for you, but if this guy is willing to create bad feelings between a girl and her mother...then get rid of him...After he's gone, honey, you will ALWAYS have your mom to talk to, laugh with, and to love you.
If he really loves you, then he wouldn't want you to be away from your family...also, at your age dating a 19 year old is kind of illegal.
You have plenty of time to find a decent man, closer to your age...trust me
Good luck, honey!
2006-09-23 12:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by lauralily86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋