LOVE at fist site?

Question

okay i went to the beach iwth my cousin this summer and he brought his best friend with him, and as soon as i layed eyes on him i was in love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
no joke!! i felt an instant connection, ive developed strong crushes,over time but this was like instant and i saw him last night and i still feel a strong connection!! the bad thing is, is thta he goes to another school. what should i do? i only see him at high school football games which will be over soon, what should i do???

Answer 1

Are you in love with his fist?

Or do you just not know how to spell.

Obviously, it's the second one.

Layed?

It doesn't matter what school he's goes to, if you like him go with him.

So what your friends & enemies will think you're lying about your new boyfriend, and for all they know is that he is a figment of your imagination.

Go for it.

Answer 2

Fact from fiction, truth from diction. You feel an attraction but you can not say it is love until you had it tested more than a handful of times and see if the attraction is still there. A short test. No use lying about it. No one can test the questions but your heart. This boy you are so in love with. what if you 2 got together and you found out he tortured small animals for fun? Stay with him? Or leave? What if you found out he had a medical condition which would prevent him form ever having children and might cause him a stroke if he ever had sex. Stay with him, or go? what if 3 weeks after you were together he was in a vehicle accident and 38% of his body got burned, most of it on the right side of his face and neck. Stay by his side or would you go? What if he lost an arm? Lost the use of both legs and was stuck in a chair the rest of his life? IF, you did not automatically say, "stick with him" without a moment hesitation. There is just lust there but no love. So, you should not worry if you can not see him that much. Because there will be another "great love" around the next beach party, BBQ, or camping trip.

Answer 3

Is it true love or true lust?

It sounds like you either do not have a car yet, or are too young to drive. Questions like this will become less important as you get older, and realize there is much more to life than High School.

But to answer your question . . .

You should stay in touch with him for as long as you wish - until he either has a car - or until you no longer have a crush on him. Surely you have heard of email? And maybe that neat little invention called a cell phone? And if you are still talking to each other a few short years from now - either one or both of you will have a driver's license - and suddenly - the guy across town will seem a lot closer.

Answer 4

Ask him to hang out sometime soon...get his phone number and give him a call...or talk to him on AIM or over e-mail. If you're that desperate to see him again once the season is over, just flat out tell him how you feel. If he feels the same way, you won't have to worry about not seeing him, because you'll make plans. And if he doesn't, well, then you can be glad you won't be running in to him every day.

Answer 5

That's not too bad. When you move into the dating world, people are much further spread out.

You could probably just call him. The nice part is that you've got some space. Since he goes to a different school, you're free of rumors.

Answer 6

i know EXACTLY how you feel. i went through that too.... say hi to him at a game or ask your brother to tell him you said hi just find a few ways to communicate.....shoot! back then i was thrilled if i heard my guys name anywhere much less even seeing him...lucky..id faint if i saw him...maybe

Answer 7

Dont wait until it is too late. If you love him tell him. if he accepts get his number and keep in touch. If he denies you, well at least you won't see him.

Answer 8

tell your cousin to leave you two alone, then talk to him and tell him how you feel.Let him know you first.Good luck :)