I’m tired of being sad. I’m tired of being in love. I am actually at the point where I am scared to be with you for fear that you will do something else to hurt me. Not being with me and partying instead with friends who may as well be advising you to do something to make me pay. I have paid. I have no more money left. I’m sorry for my mistakes. I am now a broken man and I don’t believe that I will ever be able to sustain a married life ever again. And, I hope that you don’t make me sorry I ever met you I thought that by giving you this summer that you we could find love again and start working. Now that we are starting into the fall, I was hoping that you would give me the time of day. I am not your friend Misty. I am and was your lover. The last letter that I wrote to you was real and after reading it over again and again it started to look like a desperate move to win you over. And, somehow, I feel like you have rejected the letter. I laid it all out on the line like that and maybe that wasn’t such a good idea. You need someone now who is his own man and not a me. Goodby and Best wishes.
2006-09-23 11:57:44 · 13 answers · asked by Jeff W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are an IDIOT, never,ever tell a bit*h how you feel, she'll only use it against you.
2006-09-23 12:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To me your letter sounds mello dramatic. I think it's a good letter to have wriiten to flush out your feelings but not necessarily one you should send. Here's my thoughts: It sounds like Misty is into the drug scene if that's the case nothing you say or write is going to be processed by her in the manner you hope it will. It sounds like you guys tried a seperation and now she won't even give you the time of day...It sounds like you've put it out there before , (in letter form) and she didn't respond to your thoughts or feeelings. If you made yourself vulnerable to her in the past and she has not responded in the manner that you had hoped or needed her to why set yourself up for disappointment/ or pain again? Don't beat yourself up by thinking you should have done something differently in trying to REACH her through your words. The fact is if she's involved with drugs or has substance abuse issues she is no longer the person that you once knew and loved. Sure she looks the same maybe she even smells the same but substance abuse alters people. The best thing you can do if, divorce is where this relationship stands is to take care of yourself. Work through the pain with people who love you & support you for who you are. Professional counseling won't hurt it can help you regain self respect and put this realtionship in proper perspective. Most people who walk the planet have been disappointed in love & had relationships end differently than they had hoped they would. Life is full of lessons...learn , grow, ( you will feel growing pains) but for God's sake don't think this is the end of any happiness for you. This is a lesson learned. You don't have to stay in any realtionship if it hurts. You're not broken beyond repair..pick yourself up get yourself some help and be well. It is a decision that requires your committment. Don't give up on yourself all of us have made mistakes that at one time or another have caused us to feel broken & beaten. At this time of change in your life reach out to the life force and live the life you've imagined..somewhere down the road are all your hopes & dreams waiting for you to calim them--take one step at a time. and take care of you..ask for help from those who care. Yeras from now this pain will become dull, you will remember less & less of the details that are consuming you now. Time does heal. And many, many people can assure you there is light ahead ---walk through the darkness. Hold your head up high through this storm. You are young and have a wonderful life ahead of you full of nice surprises. Be good to you!
2006-09-24 16:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read responses before I answered this. Don't listen to the negative responses. Yes it is Fair!! And there is absolutely nothing wrong with letting your feelings out on the line. Especially for a man to let them out. Your a REAL Man, Guys who are complete A**es are Mice, heck there the little sh** that comes outta mice. Little itty bitty men who have no heart and don't understand women..... Oh gosh, I could go on and on.
But it is Fair, you wished the best and said Goodbye, leave it at that and go on.
2006-09-23 12:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by AngWings 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, but from the sound if it, fairness is about the last thing you need to worry about. Just leave. You'll not even get any extra time in heaven for sending the letter.
2006-09-23 12:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip! What are you a man or a mouse "Squeak Up".
If this isn't meant to be move on and be strong.
Sounds like a waste of time on a woman not worthy of any thought.
2006-09-23 12:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by r g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This letter is great and don't worry about what other people think about it as long as you're writing what you truly feel in your heart! And, I can relate to what you are going through, word of advice "The world doesn't end."
2006-09-23 12:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by lady93534 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's a fine letter. Don't send it. Lawyer up instead.
2006-09-23 12:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to be a ***** from the sound of this guy's letter and u deserve to lose him and maybe u will learn what unrequited love is. You deserve to rot in hell as a good man today is not easy to find.
2006-09-23 12:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by diana h 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It seems fair and honest. It is fair to the recipiantand to you. It is time for you to stop being sad.
2006-09-23 12:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-23 13:02:47 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋