me and my husband is waiting for the final hearing of our divorce...now he keep saying that is all my fault on what happen to our marriage...and had other girl in the net...he said that i will let him go...and be free...but he wants to stay friends with me...now he did call my family in the philippines and argueing my mom about my bills here...why he need to talk to my family that cause more problems to them...
honestly,my family is not happy about what happen to our marriage,but bcoz of the other girl my mom just say let him go...why he telling them when i am the one who wants to get free in the 1st place...and his the one who filled the divorce.why he is blaming me now?
i dont know what to do..im so depress about this..and he said i am very controlling person...
pls.help me
2006-09-23 11:52:40 · 4 answers · asked by capricorn girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Don't answer his calls. Tell your family to hang up on him.
His behavior is that of a person whose only concern is for himself. How you or your family feel is not material to him. He wants what he wants when he wants it. That's his life.
Stop communication with him.
2006-09-23 12:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's wanting to blame someone and not wanting to take the responsibility, that is so common. Don't talk with him any more if this is how he's going to be. You already know how he feels, it sounds like he's just blaming you for it all, don't take it. You don't have to any more. You can't help it either if your family is unhappy. You tried, and now it's time to get out of it and move on with your life. You don't need him either, you can do it and you'll be fine.Everyone makes mistakes, move on.
2006-09-23 19:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by trainer53 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is feeling guilty about what he did and is trying to put the blame on you. As far as your family goes...he is trying to turn them against you also. Playing you out to be the bad person.
Whats done is done. Don't let him get to you. Do what it takes to get through to the final signature and you will feel much better. Divorces can be very taxing on ones' emotions. Good luck.
2006-09-23 18:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
because you answer the phone.
2006-09-23 18:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by MATADOR 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋