ive tried everything honest......is it wrong for me to go get it somewhere else??
2006-09-23 11:48:51 · 36 answers · asked by firefightermark2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes ive tried everything from being caring to demanding...i asked her and she said she didnt know why. and no i havent cheated on her yet. she has seen a doc but it didnt help im tired of spanking the monkey
2006-09-23 12:14:24 · update #1
Um yes. She may have a disorder. My friend has it and she had to go to the doctor to get medication for it. Talk to her and ask her whats wrong. If she doesn't know tell her it concerns you and she should seek help. It is not uncommon. But if you love your wife and respect her going some where else ot find it is wrong, you know that but it could end your marriage as well. But try talking to her, but a Doctor is a good place to start.
2006-09-23 11:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Just another day 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you havn't figured out that your wife is cheating on you then you must be crazy!!!! 6 months is way too long for you to go without sex. You and your wife need to part your ways because she has a man she's ******* right now, and if you don't believe this is true then why don't you try and see for yourself. I can guarantee you will see that she has someone else. Do yourself a favor and start a new life that will give you some happiness and a lot more sex too!!!
2006-09-23 11:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having thoughts of having sex with other people somewhere else just for the lack of your own sexual desire this is bad, Ask her the reason behind her lack of desire, DO NOT wander off and get "it" somewhere else, neither is this moral it is heartbreaking and Karma will come back to get you, You reap what you sow.
Remember "Love your loved ones and earn their trust, Or screw up your life with curiosity and lust." Would you do such a horrible thing to a woman that when you first laid eyes on her you wanted her to be your lifelong friend? Think about it Before your lousy aim of the water "Hose" turns out the fire of your love flame!
Blue
2006-09-23 11:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by E.F. Landeros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong to get it from somewhere else. Have you tried talking to your wife? Are you two having problems? Has she recently started taking medication? Medication can affect one's libido. I've been on medication that's causing me to have no desire for sex. It has nothing to do with my husband. Research what could be cause the two of you not to be intimate. Then start dating her again, tell her how special she is & how much you love her. Seek a therapist's help. If you love each other & you have a family to save it's worth it. Good luck, but I think a therapist is your best option,certainly not infidelity.
2006-09-23 11:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think everyone has come up with some good answers and thoughts. But, I think she has a boyfriend and hasn't go the courage to say so. Maybe a trail separation would be good for you and then you could have a relationship with a good woman and not feel guilty. Good luck.
2006-09-23 14:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your sex life has stopped is no reason to cheat. There are ways you can relieve your sexual tension and you know it. True, its not the same as having it with a woman, but you get my point. You two definetly need to have a serious talk. Are you flexible/have variety in your bedroom or are you one way? Ask yourself and ask her. Something is going on..........
2006-09-23 12:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get it somewhere else it is wrong in the eyes of all, even if she is denying you. Seperate---either she wants out or she needs a wake-up call. Start packing and the answer will unfold before your very eyes. Fellow firefighter-damn right!!
2006-09-23 11:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang 6 months? Maybe shes gettin' it somewhere else. You need to sit down and talk to her. Don't get it from somewhere else until you move out and file for divorce. Good luck!
2006-09-23 11:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married. There is NEVER any excuse to have any sexual relationship with any human except your wife. But, why are you married to a woman that won't sleep with you? Unless of course, you already got caught cheating, so she's cut you off.
2006-09-23 12:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT screw around.
Do you have kids? Work stresses? Is she having an affair? Do you have bad breath? A stinky dick? Sexual dysfunction?
You need to know WHY she is not interested in you at the moment.
Wait on - she doesnt know WHY?
And she doesnt want to change?
Then its over.
Dont waste your life in a crap relationship.
2006-09-23 13:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋