2006-09-23 11:45:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
want you to think they are real strong men pet. Dont worry , certain ones are even worse in all men company.....we call them prats.......
2006-09-23 11:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Next time stop shouting and ask him if he would like to talk about it instead. He might be just trying to shout louder than you to be heard and win the argument.
On the other hand, if it's because he is a bully then you could look at mediation or Relate
2006-09-24 04:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by weiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened since Adam and Eve, like a me-Tarzan, you-Jane syndrome. Its somewhat in bred throughout the generations. I dont think hes really trying to belittle you intentionally but it does appear like that but his macho head of family attitude takes over, and he appears like a bully. Guys have been raised with the belief that they have the final sayso, so they overshout you to gain that advantage. Maybe someday men will change.
2006-09-23 18:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they can, and women let them, which is so wrong. Women are so silly for staying in a relationship, where they are bullied and abused, its no way to live, and its so unfair for the kids to have to put up with that sort of thing, from the fathers.It also carries on down the line, sons seem to thing that because their fathers were abusive, then they can.
2006-09-24 01:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously with the wrong man! My husband would never belittle me he respects me too much! Im not saying we dont row (who doesnt!!) but we dont make eachother feel bad. For your own sake and self esteem get out of the damaging relationship you are in before it takes over your life!! Good Luck and be strong you deserve so much better!!!
2006-09-26 17:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jazzymay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man or woman who behaves in that way is disrespectful to you. Go away from people who disrespect you. Fast
There are many people in the world who are not bullys or belittling.
2006-09-23 18:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by booktender 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men overshout in a feeble attempt to compensate for a lack of performance under the canopy.
2006-09-24 02:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by avab2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a fight, and I'd bet a woman would do the same.
That being said....since you asked in the "marriage and divorce" category...if you're married and want to stay that way, get some counseling. You need to learn to argue without shouting.
If you're divorced, or working on it...don't talk to the idiot, except through your lawyer, if that's the way he's being - and record every conversation from now on, to show that he's being verbally abusive.
2006-09-23 18:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by physicsmom04 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Men are driven by hormones that dictate aggressive behavior. A civilized man learns to control them. Men today are a mix of those who can and those who can't control their baser drives. Sometimes these are beyond the person's control due to chemical imbalances in the brain. Because of a man's nature, it is difficult to get him to admit this and seek any help.
Also, they are bigger.
2006-09-23 18:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by Random Precision 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think is is their way of trying to show their masculinity Maybe. Who really knows. I have been in a realtionship for 6 years and there are times that he still does that until I walk out of the room. Maybe they feel that they have to yell to have their way and let us know that we dont always get to wear the pants.
2006-09-23 18:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by Aries Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because women nagg nagg naggg naggg nagg naggg nagg. they are so good at it they can multi task by nagging 3 times in the time it would normally take to nagg just once. lol
I can understand why he does it but I dont condone it and a man should never lose his temper with a female.
2006-09-24 10:05:54 · answer #11 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋