I know he can't quit one cuz we really need the money but I miss him so much! What can I do to spice things up? He always really tired to have sex or when I come home late from college, I'm too tired. The whole situation just bumbs me out! Any suggestions???
2006-09-23 11:32:52 · 11 answers · asked by Smiles 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As hard as it may be to take right now you have to know that it too will end. He works two jobs to support you. When you finish school you can work. At that point he may be able to quit one job and you will have more time.
What you face is faced by many people now and there is not much to make it better in the short term.
Remember this. You and your husband are partners. You both are working toward a future that will be much better, but for now you are paying your dews.
Keep you eye on the future and try not to be so lonely. Hard to do I know but what you are working for is worth it.
At this point you are wide open for someone coming along and keeping you company. You must not do this. You will pay for that company dearly as the loss of your mate is a very hard thing to take. Trust me I know as my first wife was right where you are.
She found someone.....we divorced....I am married again and she lives alone. What she found was worse than what she had.
Just love that man that is doing his best to keep you in the lifestyle you want to be in. It may be lonely but not nearly like living alone I think.
2006-09-23 11:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there is more communication that needs to take place. Things are not working the way they are now, and you could lose your relationship if you don't 'nip this in the butt'.
You need to let him know that you are lonely (and what exactly that means). Then you need to have ideas for helping...cutting back on bills so the debt to income ratio is better suited for one job. Maybe he gets one higher paying job. Bounce ideas off each other, and before you know it, you won't be lonely anymore b/c of the communication and the active role both of you are playing in making your situation a better one for the both of you.
2006-09-23 18:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Heart of Plat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to survive on one income. Sounds like you're overextended.
2006-09-23 18:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No suggestions, but God bless you. If my husband worked two jobs and I rarely got to see him, I would be SO immensely happy I'd explode. ; )
2006-09-24 00:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some friends to hang out with.
2006-09-23 18:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could get a job so he could back off his hours and you would have time together.
2006-09-23 18:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try working the same amount of hours as him or at least keep busy for the same amount of hours.
If hes that busy because of money try contributing!
2006-09-23 18:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by r g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try having sex in the morning before you both start your day!
2006-09-23 18:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you get a job too or i wood like to have sex with you
2006-09-23 18:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by dockb58 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can come to my house
2006-09-24 03:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋