2006-09-23 11:23:25 · 45 answers · asked by Dagainesexyback 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Are you out of your mind? Don't be so selfish and put someone through that.
2006-09-23 11:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by a_soft_world 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well first of all getting pregnant is not as easy as it sounds. It takes an average couple one year to conceived and U only have 25 % each time u have unprotected sex which means u have a better Chance of getting pregnant in 6 months or a year or maybe more. so here is the question. DO u plan on putting holes on the condoms for 6 months or a whole year which u might get caught or do u prefer to wait when he is ready and don't have to go through the headache of putting holes in condoms? good lock with your choice
2006-09-23 13:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No...please, no...I have been in your position before and got angry with my boyfriend because he was treating me very badly and was married already. We were together four years and I got so mad, although I loved him SO much (or thought I did) that one night I snapped, and though I didn't do anything as deliberate as making holes in a condom, I didn't use my protection and he didn't ask me to because he was drunk as usual. I was focussed on getting pregnant as a way to break the situation because I felt so trapped and it was such a big secret. I got pregnant, now I have a young child without a father, the father hates me even tho it was both our faults, he never sees his son and I am living with horrible guilt. It's not fair to do something like that and I know how wrong I was to act out of frustration and anger. It's not a game, it's real, and it is the worst thing you could possibly do. I understand big time how you feel, but please learn from my mistake. Good luck being strong. This is so wrong.
2006-09-23 20:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Susier 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of question is this? You have got to be kidding. First of all IF you poke holes in the condom it will split BEFORE he gets it completely on lol NEXT why would you want to FORCE a child on a guy who doesn't want one? You will end up being a single unmarried mother whose baby's father (not daddy) FATHER who more than likely will NOT pay child support and torment you for the rest of your life about making the choices for him.
2006-09-23 11:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reality of being a parent is being a single parent. He has told you that he doesn't want kids so you should be prepared to handle this alone. If raising a child by yourself is a risk you are willing to take, then yes by all means poke holes.
2006-09-23 12:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by laedeb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to respect his wishes and wait till you both agree. Marriage would be nice as well. That is what is wrong with the world today any way. People having children out of wedlock and one not wanting the child. It is not the child's fault that is was conceived and born, but the child is always the one that suffers. Think about someone other than yourself.
2006-09-23 12:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by beta_slave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There are men now taking women to court because they feel it is not fair that the woman can choose to have/keep a child even if the man says that he is not ready. What kind of situation would you be bringing a child into basically tricking someone into getting you pregnant. I also want children really badly and my boyfriend not so much but I would have never trapped him into a situation like that. We are now 4 yrs into our relationship and are stable and now he wants to have children with me also VOLU
NTARILY..... I really hope this guy has like a sixth sense not to sleep with you because thst is just totally unfair to him
2006-09-23 17:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by success 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good god NO! For once, HE's the one using common sense. Poke holes in his condom, get pregnant, and watch him 1. take off in the opposite direction or 2. stay and uphold his obligation, but hate every minute of it and resent you and the baby.
If either of those sound like the future you want....................
2006-09-23 11:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO...why bring a child into a relationship where both parties are not wanting the child. If you do this, you'll end up with a child on your own. He'll probably bail, and you'll be left with the child.
What's wrong with you? At least he's man enough to tell you that he doesn't want a child, and he uses a condom...
Reality check...should you be someones mother?
2006-09-23 11:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let's see. If he wanted to get pregnant, and you didn't, would you think it's ethical for him to poke holes in a condom?
I think that would be incredibly irresponsible, and a horrible trick to play on another human being.
Please wait until you find someone who wants to have a baby WITH you.
Best of Luck
2006-09-23 12:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by Tragedy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!NO! never never do some thing like that. When I was younger girls would do that to trap there boy friend. Am so glad that I never did that. I did have a baby back in the 70's an the father new the baby was his he was around for a month or so then he never came around to the baby. W hen my son grow up they meet again my son even went to live with him to get to know him. when my son moved back home his father stop calling him an just stop seeing him an it did not have any thing to do with me. His father an I had always gotten along so it was not because of me that he stop seeing his son. You could be hurting your child by doing some thing like that. TRUST ME THERE IS NOTHING LIKE SEEING YOUR CHILD WITH TEARS AN THERE EYES. CAN NOT UNDERSTAND WHY THERE DAD DOES NOT COME AROUND! even when you try telling them your dad does love you but there heart does not beleave that. FOR ANY GIRL OR WOMAN TO DO SOME THING LIKE THAT IS DOWN RIGHT LOW!!!! It was a surprise to me when I found out that I was going to have a baby. I THANK GOD EVERY DAY FOR HIM BUT HE HAD TO GROW UP WITH OUT HIS DAD. Now do you want to do that to your baby?
2006-09-23 11:55:35 · answer #11 · answered by Nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋