My neighbor died. I'm only a teen. And he is an older guy. I didn't know him very well. But I know his wife and his two little girls. I was mowing the lawn for my dad. I saw him across the street and waved hello. He was down the street a bit. With his dog. I saw him walking back and forth. Then I finished up and went inside. 20 minutes later there were Ambulances, but I stayed inside. My mom left to see want was happening. He was found in his yard face up, dark blue, his dog laying by his side.....it started to pour down raining....I feel trouble.....for his girls....and his wife...
2006-09-23 11:14:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
all good answers thanks...
2006-09-24 11:53:37 · update #1
Do what your heart tells you to do. Help them in their pain and see if you can do some of the little things that will help. Just being there is so coo for you to do. Good luck and God bless. Grief is handled differently by people, so you are pretty normal in your thoughts.
2006-09-24 17:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, that's sad. Don't worry everyone has or will experience death. Maybe you should take them flowers/ dinner and ask if there is anything you can do to help them. Just a thought, she might need you to do her lawn. When someone close dies especially a dad or husband , the mom would most likely need help with the kids. I'm sure just feeding them right now is hard for her to focus on. Just offer her your help and you'll feel better about it.You'll be doing a wonderful thing and should be proud to step up and be a man. Good luck, I will pray for her family.
2006-09-23 18:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Hasslick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a tough time for you right now. Teens have the hardest time with death when it is unexpected. This comes at a time in your life when you are trying to figure out who you are and what you want to become when you are an adult. Rest assured there is a reason for this untimely death, although you may not understand it for now, and may not for quite sometime.
If you are close to his family, getting to know them a bit more and helping out is a good source of healing for them as well as you. If you don't and feel compealed to get to know them, get with your parents and see what you can do to get through the grieving process. Blessings to you.
2006-09-23 18:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by faith4ricknlisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death is a sad thing especialy if it happens suddenly. right now you are in mourning. I know it seems like things won't get better but they will. Just give it time and try not to worry. His wife and children will be fine, just let them know you are there if they need you.
2006-09-23 18:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by cindi7462 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all born to die when our time will come. Death of the person we know is always a stressful experience. Try to say to his wife and children that you miss him, and that you are sorry that he is died so suddenly, be nice to them you will help them to overcome their loss.
2006-09-23 18:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so sad perhaps you should tell your mom that you need some grief counseling...maybe you should go over and ask the wife if there is anything you could do to help her out ...im sorry for you
2006-09-23 18:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is tragic sometimes. People come and go, you mourn and move on. It's just how it is.
2006-09-23 18:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by a_soft_world 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow your feelings, don't denied them, you are facing one of life's realities , one day we all die.
give yourself sometime, life will go back to normal.
2006-09-23 18:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by MATADOR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're mourning. It's normal.
2006-09-23 18:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll feel better in time i promise, you're just being human.
you are in my thoughts.
2006-09-23 18:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by KEV D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋