Hi am 23 years old and have a six year old step-son , a second cousin who is 4 years old names she is a girl i have custody of her at this time, and 12 month old son . My husband 28 years old is a vet who works for his father practice and i am a zoologist who works partime at the zoo. We have 4 dogs, 1 cat, 1 domesticated skunk, 1 bunny rabit, 1 lizard , 1 turtle, 2 mice, 1 african gray parrot, and a Squirrel. I think we have to many animals and i feel exuasted all the time and do not want to have sex anyymore. How do i try to tell him i need help i cant go on like this!? He also had an affair recently!have tried bringing it up before but he just ignores me and wants to be left alone when he is home because he is too tiered to help!but expect dinner on the table.Therapy just made him more lazy!
2006-09-23 11:07:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I fantasize about leaving my husband sometimes its so bad. We have been married for 3 years only!
2006-09-23 11:08:08 · update #1
How do i get over his affair!!
2006-09-23 11:08:55 · update #2
I feel horrible and stressed out!!
2006-09-23 11:12:29 · update #3
First of all you got married at a young age and automatically became an instant family with a very large responsibility. What customs and religious background do you and your husband come from? No matter while holding resentment is a natural feeling (yes,I have been there myself), the bottom line is, the only one it holds captive is yourself. The best suggestion I could give you is for YOU to get into counseling with or without your husband. No matter if your marraige survives or not, you or going to need some help through this difficult time. God speed.
2006-09-23 11:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by faith4ricknlisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time for you to take care of yourself, what you are saying is not life at all, pay attention about how you feel, do not worry about your husband, once you figure out yourself, than move on to your husband, at that moment you can discuss counseling, if he is not willing, you do it.
In the long run, every decision in this life is about ourselves.
you have a lot to learn , but channel your energy wisely.
2006-09-23 18:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by MATADOR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never get over an affair . It would eat at my soul every single day.
2006-09-23 18:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably will never forget- if you can forgive, then you are a better person than I. You need a vacation--ALONE!!
2006-09-23 18:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is too private for the internet
2006-09-23 18:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋