I went to a school dance and got asked to dance by my crush(my BFF likes the same guy) to make a long story short me and my crush ended up making out. My BFF saw and now she's mad at the guy because earlier he asked her out and she said yes and by the end of the night they were history. She's a little bit mad at me but I didn't know that they were going out. WHAT SHOULD I DO????? p.s. I know this dosn't have anything to do with beauty but I really need girls' help!
2006-09-23 11:03:39 · 16 answers · asked by roxy34gal 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You have two options.
(1). You talk it out with her and make sure that she knows you didn't know they were dating. Make sure that you comfort her and listen to her side of the story too!!
(2). Don't be with the guy anymore. If he asked another girl out and she accepted- then asked you to dance and made-out with you- he is so not smart. He doesn't deserve you!
I would reccomend both. DO BOTH OF THEM- please!
2006-09-23 13:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Cinderella108 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did not know that he had asked her out earlier in the evening so that is not your fault. He is a cad because he asked a girl out and then later in the evening was making out with her friend. I would dump him like a bad habit. I know that you are infatuated with him but if he did that to her he will probably do the same type of thing to you. Girls need to stick together. That relationship is far more important. Give her a couple of days to cool off and then explain the situation. If you are straight forward about what happened you will be better off.
Good Luck!
2006-09-23 18:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by crzyanl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , 1st, I think you should drop this guy if you value your friendship with this girl.Cuz regardless of what she might say,if you start to see this guy,she'll be jealous.And why would you wanna date a guy if he asked your bff out, and then made out with you? He just wants some A**. So choose, your bff or some dude? There are some fun and sexy men out there,so I dont think you and your friend should set your intrest in the same one! (:
2006-09-23 18:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by JUBILI83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and explain to her that you would have never done it if you would have know the situation...if shes your true best friend, shell understand, it might take a little bit but things should work out with you two. as for the guy, you both need to stay away from him, he sounds like a creep. move on and find someone else
2006-09-23 18:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the dude. Obviously he was in it for himself, by asking you both out. Takes two to tango. He knowledgably messed with both of you. He's in it for himself, True love doesn't come from people who allow these types of situations. He's not going to change anytime soon at this age. If you're the type of girl who doesn't care then just do what you do and keep being with him.
2006-09-23 18:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should she be mad! She and him are sooooooo over and done. Why in the world would she be mad? If she is a sensible freind, why is she mad at you? I can understand why she is mad at him, he is a desperate kind of guy and will go out with the next best, and if you like this guy stick with him! And your freind will get over it.
2006-09-23 18:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by Say yo to your people 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her cool down because at this point she doesn't want to hear anything. If she's really your BFF then she'll come around.
2006-09-23 18:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, just explain it to your friend and give her some time, she is upset about the situation, not really at you probably. Give her space though, she'll come around if she's truly your friend and if not she's not too cool anyway.
2006-09-23 18:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by Phyllis D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at your age...friends before boys...if he did it to her, he will do it to you.
Forget him, and let her know that your friendship is more important.
Trust me I lost one of my best friends in high school cause of a boy, he was in my life very briefly and she like him, he didn't like her but he liked me.....we were never really friends again, not the way we were for the first 3 years of high school.
I regret it to this day, and I am now 30
2006-09-23 18:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by mcgag29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the guy. Friends are more important. If she really is your friend you guys will make up. The important thing is to stick with your friend.
2006-09-23 19:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by randomxreject 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋